- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2015
I have three siblings. We lost our mom three years ago and our dad a year later. After the passing of my dad, arguements started amoungst my three siblings. The arguements were about who got what of my parents things.(parents didn’t have a will.) The family went through the probate process and everything was settled this past summer.
I was put in the middle of my siblings arguements. I didn’t take sides, I gave advice when I thought was warranted.
I got engaged in january. I wrote a letter to my siblings telling them how I felt. How I wanted all three of them at the wedding. It was a heart felt letter. I asked them if they could please put their differences aside for one day. They all said they would be there for me.
My wedding is next month. My sister isn’t coming because she doesn’t want to be around my brothers. My oldest brother told me he was coming to the wedding the last time we talked, now today I got his RSVP back saying he’s not coming. That leaves one brother and his family coming. It hurts because it’s bad enough I don’t have my parents and now only one sibling is coming. Why can’t people grow up and get over themselves?
I know I’m going to have an amazimg wedding day. I just wish my whole family would be there.