(Closed) Hurt Feelings Over Family-Only Wedding

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

your future SIL. If they were engaged or married themselves then it would be rude as he would be or soon will be a member of the family as well, but since that is not the case, she should respect your decision in having a very small wedding

Post # 4
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Bumble bee

SHE is most definitely being rude. If they were married, I think it would be a different story because then he would be considered “family”. It sound like she is throwing a temper tantrum because she isn’t getting her way! I’d ignore her as best as you can!

Good luck and ENJOY your day! 😀

Post # 6
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7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Yikes. I wouldn’t have sent that. The thing I have learned first about in-laws is to let the Darling Husband handle it.  You sunk to her level. Your Fiance should tell her how he feels otherwise you’re just the “brothers wife” causing drama.

Post # 7
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541 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Your Future Sister-In-Law was definitely being rude–But did you post that reply publicly on FB?

 

Post # 9
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1227 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Hate to say it, but I agree with mwitter80. Probably something that would’ve been best handled by your Fiance.

Though I do agree your future SIL was being a brat. She sounds very young and immature, based on your description of this situation. I’d try not to take it too hard that she’s acting this way. Please try to enjoy the day anyway!

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