- 6 years ago
- Wedding: April 2014
I am so pissed at my friends. I graduated six years ago, and ever since i have tried very hard to keep in touch with my friends through Facebook. Three friends in particular.
1. This particular girl was a cheerleader and very popular, we became friends when she was the new kid and she remained my friend throughout school. When we graduated, she hugged me and said she loved me as her sister and would never forget me. The next time i saw her, i smiled and waved, thinking she would talk to me, she turned up her nose and walked on. WTF!!
2. This girl claimed to be a good friend of mine. We exchanged gifts at christmas, we talked on the phone, we hung out at football games and field trips, we ate lunch together every day. She even downloaded music on my new MP3 player. After we graduated, we kept talking through Facebook and text, and i was proud to have kept her as a friend. One day i went on her profile, and she had posted WEDDING PHOTOS. Out of all of our conversations, she never even mentioned being engaged! She never told me anything about it, i would have loved to be there! I emailed her and asked about it, she never responded. A few weeks later i bought a new car, and i texted her a pic of it. We started talking, and she asked who i was. I told her my name, and she says she just saw me. I told her i hadnt seen her since graduation, and once she figured out that i was not her new sister-in-law with the same name as me, she never responded. The next time i talked to her, she sent me a pic of her BABY. She never told me she was pregnant! I do not call this a friendship!
3. This girl was one of my closest friends. We talked about everything during my junior and senior years of high school. She helped me cope when my two very best friends moved away, and i helped her when her sister married a real jerk and my friend was very upset about it. We shared homework, we shared art projects, we even shared lockers. She spent nights with me at my house! I considered her a true friend. After we graduated, i kept in touch with her via Facebook. We have been emailing nearly every week since high school, and i thought we were still really good friends. I told her immediately when i got engaged. Yesterday, i logged onto her profile, and saw wedding photos. She just got married on July 25. She didnt bother to send me an email, not a text message, NOTHING!
What is up with my friends? I would love to have celebrated their weddings with them, and their names are on my guest list! I just dont understand, i am so upset.