(Closed) Hurt – No Bridal Shower at work

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
1493 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

@octgirl: Hugs! It was months later that people I worked with or near even acknowledged that I got married.

Post # 4
539 posts
Busy bee

My office didn’t throw me a shower either, was a little hurt, we are an office of 10 women. Especially since they celebrate every occassion, bugged me only for a minute.

Post # 7
6998 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

eeek – this would bother me too i think – under the circumstances.

i didnt have one at work but then again there werent other showers either so i cant really be offended.

im so sorry! were any of them invited to the wedding?

Post # 8
1150 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Just curious, are you normally the one who organizes these kinds of things at work? I know at my work there is a woman who organizes the office birthday lunches and when hers came up -doh! We had all forgotten … I felt terrible.



Post # 10
274 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m sorry.  That’s a huge bummer.  I’d definitely feel sad about that as well.  **hugs**

Post # 11
2154 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Maybe they’re going to give you cards and stuff after the big day?

Post # 12
46657 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Let’s hope they have a surprise planned! This is hurtful behavior. Our office is huge but this stuff used to happen all the time. We now have a policy so that everyone gets treated fairly. The social committee organizes events.

Too bad we have to have a policy to ensure that people are equally kind to each other.

Post # 13
3942 posts
Honey bee

Bummer 🙁

I’m the one at work that plans everything like this. I never even get a “happy birthday” from work people, nevermind a nice cake like I do every month for everyone else! Oh well!

Post # 16
828 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

@Mollytov: yep, that’s me! planning office parties for the past 9 years 😉 

nothing for me either… I was a little sad that no one even said “good luck” or “congrats” when I left for the wedding but just as I was about to walk out the door I got a huge hug from someone that was unexpected and their kind words made me forget about all the other that didn’t say anything. It was really sweet. 

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