(Closed) Husband ask for divorce via text

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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Helper bee

I am so sorry you are going through this. Ending any kind of relationship by text is awful…end a marriage by text…well, I don’t even have words for it. As far as your classwork, maybe try talking to your professor and explaining the situation? There are occasional mean ones, but in my experience most professors understand that life happens and will work with you. I hope things get better soon.

Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper

Hug. What an insensitive brut! 

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Hugs. My ex husband did this to me, while we had company, no less!

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper

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makeuplover:  What a $hitty thing to do!  As 
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Soph45:  said, is there any way that you can talk to your professor, and reschedule.  Or do your best to get mad and do a great job and show the jerk that you can take care of yourself with or without him!!  You deserve better!!

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I am SOO sorry about this! I would talk to the professor like Soph45 said. No one should have to go through this! *hugs*!!

 

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

I would start digging as soon as your project is done. Like other bees have said, maybe try to talk to your professors and see if you can have an extension? Mine were always willing to work with students. You need to check his email and phone records–this sounds like it could be an affair. Do you have any idea where he went last night? I’ll tell you one thing, the first time my husband spends outside of the home without talking about it first is the night directly after the last one he’ll ever spend with me. 

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

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makeuplover:  I’m so sorry.  Ending a marriage by text and then cutting of communication is cowardly.  He’s such a coward!!!  After 5 yrs of marriage you deserved a face to face conversation.  How dare he treat you like this.  I’m so angry for you! 

Maybe there is a classmate you could call? or a neighbour you could talk to?  There is also the crisis line if you need to talk to someone.  I’ve had to use it when I’ve been going through difficult times.  I’ve found then to be really helpful and kind.  You can google the number in your area.  My guess is that you’re in shock right now – shaking, crying etc… it’s normal given what’s happened.  You need to take really good care of yourself right now.  I’d suggest trying to calm yourself down.  Perhaps take a hot shower or a bath.  Listen to music you find soothing.  I don’t drink much but just to calm yourself maybe a small amount of brandy or something similar?  Remember this isn’t your fault and you didn’t deserve this.  He’s the one in the wrong here.  (((hugs)))

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Sugar bee

Well, isn’t he just a peach.  Ugggh

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

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makeuplover:  I’m so sorry you’re going through so much all at once.

He’s a special kind of coward if he is telling you out of the blue that he wants a divorce VIA TEXT MESSAGE and then not even face you after. Is he seeing someone else? Where could he have been all night that it wasn’t a priority for him to come home and talk to HIS WIFE?

Post # 12
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Helper bee

I would message him and say that unless he is willing to have a conversation like an adult human being and treat you like a woman with feelings then you aren’t going to even acknowledge his request. What a disgusting pig…u clearly deserve better. 

Post # 13
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Bumble bee

This is the 2nd time he’s done this- you should just cut your losses right now! I would focus all my energy into anger and push thru this presentation, there’s time to mourn later. And time to celebrate 🙂 your new freedom and fresh start to life! because he’s clearly unsupportive of your dreams by trying to sabotage your presentation. He’s immature and you deserve better! He wants a divorce? FINE! After the presentation you throw all of his crap out on the lawn, he’s no longer welcome in the home, good-bye.

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

I’m so sorry! Uhhh girl…. I wanna hug you so tight and then (excuse my language) find your husband and kick his fucking teeth in! What a horrible and cowardly thing to do! I know you have to be hurting! I’m so sorry. I wish I had some amazing advice to give you. Sending you lots of love and good energy! Breathe Girl!

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

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yupmarried:  I second this…. All this! Don’t get mad! Get even! Best way to get even….. Move on, LIVE well! Your happiness is out there without him! Tighten your boot straps lady and go kick some ass! Fuck him!

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