(Closed) Husband ask for divorce via text

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 61
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187 posts
Blushing bee

We like to think we are all special and our relationships are different but the truth is, breakups are freakishly standard. Check out a relationship board like Loveshack or similar, go thread to thread, you’ll feel you are reading the same story over and over and over.

 

I am surpised women do not know that one of the classic signs of cheating is a suddenly cold demeanor. It’s textbook I’m sorry to say, they detach themselves. It’s also common for them to start fights so they can storm off and be with “her”, so think back, has he done that before?

 

I would honest to God bet my entire life savings that there is someone else. Please get yourself tested and don’t sleep with him.

 

Post # 62
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84 posts
Worker bee

Uggh, that is most shittest way to divorce! He is clearly an asshole…

Stay strong in school and as a person. I know you can get through this. He is missing out on everything. We are here to comfort if you need any (hugs) 

Post # 63
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

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makeuplover:  Ugh. I’ve been following your thread since the beginning but haven’t posted until now because I really don’t even know what to say.

I guess I just wanted to send you a supportive message to say I’m thinking of you during this horribly sad situation and sending you my warmest and happiest vibes. You deserve to be happy and I know you will be someday soon, so just keep trucking along while you move your way through this part of the journey. You’re doing great. Xx.

Post # 65
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

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makeuplover:  I’m glad you’re going to therapy and hope that it is helpful for you to work through all your thoughts and feelings. Reading your update makes me so sad (about the way you are feeling). Please make sure you take care of yourself and try and plan some happier activities with friends or family if you can, to keep you sane.

I find it hard when people tell others on these boards that they should or shouldn’t leave their relationships, because nothing is ever straight forward in life and it’s impossible to understand the full context of a situation from a few messages. I don’t want to make any suggestions about what you should do, but I will ask this question: Are you planning on starting a family together and, if so, do you think you would ever have the full sense of security in this marriage that you would need to do that happily and with no hesitation?

Wishing you the very best and hope that things feel more ‘normal’ for you again soon.

Post # 66
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Buzzing Beekeeper

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makeuplover:  Your update  makes me feel very sad for you and  I wish I couldl be there with wine and chocolate and a listening ear.

I also wish I could have read something  it that contradicts what   pps have been saying about him making you the bad guy in all this, but I can’t. 

 “He told me its not about what’s fair it’s about what works so maybe he can slowly ease back into how things were. when and if it does, he’ll make it up to me and I ll see it’s worth It.”

It’s like he thinks he’s the only one with any rights or power  or control in this realtionship. Not true.  Is it?  

 Sending many  good wishes and  good feelings   to you from out here in the Internet.

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