(Closed) Husband called me by his exes name… We've been married 10years!

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 31
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

Back when we were dating, I called my husband by my ex’s name one time when we were, “having fun” and as someone who was on the other side of it, it was literally just a huge brain fart. We had a serious conversation about it but it was so obviously a mistake that had nothing to do with anything, so he let it go. We laughed about it afterwards because he could see how genuinely apologetic I was. I do not think there is any cause for concern.

Post # 32
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2016 - Little Chapel of Flowers

Definately, let it go.  Not another moments thought.

Post # 33
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Sugar bee

See why I call everyone “boo”?

Post # 34
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Busy bee

Dont overthink it!! Maybe something triggered the memory of the name, not necessarily the memory of her 🙂

Post # 35
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

I think it was probably just a slip of the tongue. My boyfriend has accidentally called me my sisters name before. He didn’t even know he did it, sometimes people just speak incorrectly without thinking. 

Post # 36
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Busy bee

Laurie and Lindsay are so similar in sound, he has a lot on his mind. It’s probably a brain fart. Sometimes I catch myself almost accidentally calling my Fiance by my ex’s name, but that’s only when my Fiance is being annoying, hahaha.

Post # 37
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Bumble bee

molokoa:  My mom thinks it’s hilarious that she accidentally calls her pitbull by my name all the time…I guess it kind of is.  😀

Post # 38
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I wouldn’t harp on it. I once put down my ex birthday on an application instead of my fiancee and honestly it’s because they are two days apart and I was on autopilot. It happens.

Post # 39
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Busy bee

Simple mistake, means absolutely nothing other than that he was stressed and not thinking clearly.

Post # 40
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Newbee

Don’t stress I once called my SO by his best mates name! When saying I love you! AWKWARD! Trust me I was not having it away with his best mate was just thinking of a conversation I had with him earlier. 

He’s probably just stressed, and thinking about what he did before that job which probably included his ex wife. 

Post # 41
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Ha, I call my mom “babe” or “Hun” and my husband “mom” More frequently than I like to admit. And after we had dog-sat for a weekend, I told my husband he was a good boy. Glad I’m not the only one who has these kinds of brain farts. OP, don’t worry about it!

Post # 42
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

I just called my dh by my abusive ex’s name the other day.  I was super stressed & angry & it just came out.  It meant nothing.  He didn’t seem to notice.  

Post # 43
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Wannabee

I wouldn’t get too upset over it, he is stressed and going through a rough patch.  Just a slip of the tongue.  My mother in laws calls me by the first wifes name all the time, but I think she does it on purpose.  My husband has slipped up a few times and I just shoot him a dirty look and say “Really??”.  Then came the day I accidentally called him by my first husbands name.  He said “Oh, Oh, you can’t get mad at me now”.  We laughted about it.   I would let your hubby off easy on this one.

Post # 44
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2016

Yeah, I wouldn’t even assume that he was thinking about her at all. Also it might be something about talking on the phone. The other day I was on the phone to my sister and referred to my Fiance using her FI’s name. They both start with the same letter too.

Post # 45
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Bumble bee

I haven’t been with Fiance nearly as long… but there have been a couple of times where he’s started to say her name (which starts with an M) before Robyn.  

It’s usually pretty funny… and he apologizes but I don’t take it personally. I don’t know how I’d feel in  4 more years if it happened though. Like the others have said – I woudn’t stress!

 

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