Husband called me by someone else's name during sex…

posted 1 year ago in Relationships
Post # 2
Hostess
8548 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

nosybee :  Ummm wow, yeah I would be pissed. I would sit down and say, I know the porn star excuse is BS, who is she?

Post # 3
Hostess
8548 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

nosybee :  Ummm wow, yeah I would be pissed. I would sit down and say, I know the porn star excuse is BS, who is she?

Post # 4
Member
816 posts
Busy bee

We’d be having a serious discussion if something like that occurred. The porn star thing sounds unlikely to me. I know my husband watches porn and has fantasies but never once has he called me by another woman’s name during sex. 

Post # 5
Member
3309 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

If this was a new relationship I would defend him and say it was an innocent slip during the heat of passion. Can you confirm that he watches a porn star named Tori?? 

Post # 6
Member
943 posts
Busy bee

That is a big no no! I dont buy the porn star excuse either. I used to routinely fantasize about Lorenzo Lamas 20 years ago but I have never moaned his name during sex with my dear husband. I would give him a chance to come clean. Be prepared to hear something you likely dont want to hear especially with what you gathered from FB.

ETA: I let hubby read the original post and he said that is not good, not good at all. 

Post # 8
Member
2014 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

Sooo, quick story. I was once with a guy with a name that started with a J. During sex, I mushed the J and God together. Making the name “John”. I don’t know a John. I never slept with a John. It was just a weird combo of words. Is there any chance something like that happened? 

Post # 10
Member
251 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

nosybee :  bee I had this happen with a boyfriend of mine a long long time ago he called me by his ex’s name and i was livid! I did not forgive and neither should you , This is you’re husband we’re talking about!!! a big no no!!!! something is up for sure! keep your radar on high alert!!! 

Post # 11
Member
2235 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

cameobride :  10 bucks says Husband is currently scouring google for a plausible porn star named Tori.

Post # 12
Member
3309 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

Tatum you’re probably right

Post # 13
Member
943 posts
Busy bee

Tatum :  Hahaha probably. I would bet he is also deleting the Victoria woman from his FB. 

 

Post # 15
Member
2235 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

OP, once during sex, I called my boyfriend at the time Justin. His name was Jason. We knew a Justin, but I promise, I was not sleeping with him nor did I fantasize about sleeping with him. It was just a slip of the tongue. I am not sure how I would have explained that to him, but he either didn’t hear me or pretended not to hear me, bless his heart.

 

In your husband’s case though, the porn star thing gives me pause. It’s possible, I guess, but just seems really unlikely. Like another poster pointed out, I have my own celebrity crushes, but I personally have never gotten so into the moment that I called out their names during sex. And even if I could absolutely prove that when I yelled out, Ryan! I was thinking of Ryan Gosling, I don’t think my husband would be too happy. I wouldn’t really appreciate him hollering out Rhonda! (for Rhonda Rousey) in the heat of passion even if I knew she was just his celebrity crush.

 

Do you have any other reason to suspect he’s been unfaithful?

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