(Closed) Husband is writing thank you notes!?!

posted 6 years ago in Gifts and Registries
Post # 3
12973 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Fiance has been involved in everything.  He will also be writing the thank you cards for his family and his guests. 

Post # 4
2239 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Nice!  That’s great =) 

Post # 5
1849 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Good for you! Mine got excited about planning his (and his brother’s) wardrobes and got seriously into choosing the cake/cupcakes. He’s great because he always manages to get excited about whatever I’m into at the time. He even watched Say Yes to the Dress with me and gave mane dress opinions while looking on websites. He doesn’t want to write thank you notes though… even for members of his family I will have never met before. Apparently he was under the impression that it’s strictly the bride’s thing. ugh. 

Post # 6
2394 posts
Buzzing bee

Awesome! We split the thank you cards by family. I wrote the ones of my family, he did the ones for his. My family is far bigger but I was just grateful he didn’t mind. 

Post # 7
4194 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

Darling Husband also did the thank yous for most of his friends and family. Mine were a little more eloquent (I gave him a sample), but we were able to finish most of them last night.

@Taeyers:  It’s not “strictly the bride’s thing,” especially when you haven’t met them. Fortunately you have time to get him on board with this. 🙂

Post # 8
1583 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

My husband was amazing about writing the thank you notes! We split them up evenly and had them done the day of for some of our showers and within 2 weeks of getting back from the honeymoon! It was so nice to team together! Love him so much!

Post # 9
421 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Thats awesome!! My Husband helped me write thank you cards, i think my eyeballs popped out of my head when he told me he would write some!

Post # 10
3266 posts
Sugar bee

We split it. We worked like a factory.  One of us would address the envelope, while the other wrote the note.  We changed it up every 10 or so, so we didn’t get into a rut.

We also made sure to write ones for extra special gifts to our own family members.

Post # 11
3886 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I wish my fiance would be writing the thank-you cards but his handwriting is freaking atrocious!  So I will be writing them and he will just add a little note, one sentence if that, for his own personal touch. 

Post # 12
1459 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

My husband dd the Thank you cards for his family and friends, though when people were ambguous, I did most of theirs.

He was pretty laid back with the wedding planning and mostly served the purpose of cheerleader during my projects.

BUT he did help bake the wedding cake, for which I was very grateful.

Post # 13
111 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

My Fiance had been very “whatever you like is fine” and mostly uninvolved until our invites showed up over the weekend. He was dead set on helping. We got the pocket kind where you need to assemble the pockets yourself and insert everything and he helped with everything! He even made one of his grooms men get involved!! I was so relieved and appreciative and surprised since I thought I was going to have to do it all by myself!!! (My bridal party and family doesn’t live nearby otherwise I would have made them help!)

Post # 14
28 posts
  • Wedding: April 2013

@Foreverblonde345:  During the wedding planning he has been SOOOOOOOOOO over the top helpful. Some ideas I’ve been like, “Um please keep that thought to yourself” (ie: he wanted to stick a steer, dead of course, on a rotisserie for our dinner and have everyone cut a slice off lol. Sad thing was he was SERIOUS!) But his other ideas have been wonderful! Like helping me pick out our flowers, what’s going on the tables, having a band play our first dance song. I definitely feel so lucky! 🙂 🙂

Post # 16
570 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

That’s amazing!!!! I don’t think I’ll get so lucky lol. He’s been great with letting me make whatever decisions I want (he only wanted to help with the food tasting of course!) but sometimes a little direction would be nice!!

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