- 3 years ago
- Wedding: September 2016
**POSTING FOR A CLOSE FRIEND**
Facts about this situation:
My friend is 17 weeks pregnant after trying for 5 years – they had lots of speciality care since they were having issues and after many unsuccessful tries they finally were able to conceive.
She has been a stay at home mom to her husbands 6 year old daughter. His daughter is from a previous relationship and the mother was not involved with the girl after a few months. My friend has been a stay at home mom to her since she was a few months old.
Biological mother of the girl signed over rights just a few short weeks ago, and my friend is actually in the process of adopting her and has a meeting this week in court about the final steps. Which now she is upset and worried about what will happen, since he has left.
Her husband came home 2 days ago, said he was tired of her, had found a new girlfriend and was leaving her. He packed a bag and left. The 6 year old has been in my friends care since he left.
She is a Stay-At-Home Mom and hasn’t worked outside the home in 6 or 7 years. She cared for their daughter while he finished his college degree and worked full time. He was the sole provider of their household.
He has openly changed is relationship status on Facebook to being with this other girl. He is posting pictures of him and his new girlfriend and he hasn’t even filed for divorce yet. He wants my friend to leave their home so that his new girlfriend can move in.
Needless to say she needs to lawyer up (I believe she has a meeting later this week with someone) and see what she can do, but, I know she is extremely scared, nervous and obviously upset. She is a high risk pregnancy to begin with and this is all so overwhelming to her.
They live in Kansas – she has no family there. Her mom drove from her home state to Kansas to be with her this week to try and figure stuff out.
Any bees out there ever been in this situation? Anyone in Kansas ever gone through a divorce who can shed some light on the divorce process in Kansas. We do know they recognize at fault divorces, which I feel this is one since he walked out.