(Closed) Husband left for another woman, 17 weeks pregnant. Any divorced bees in Kansas?

posted 3 years ago in Legal
Post # 2
9544 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

What a total irresponsible ASS!!

Hope karma gets him good.

Sorry, not in Kansas but wish your friend and the children involved the best. They deserve a man so much better.

Post # 4
6112 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

svnnh09:  well the good news is he is doing everything in his power to make the legal stuff easier for her.  Blatantly cheating like that to the point of posting it all on facebook is giving her a wealth of evidence about his behavior.  She needs to screenshot all of it just in case his lawyer tells him what a moron he is by posting it all.

Other than that, I’m no help.  What an awful situation. I hope she retains full custody of the little girl – she doesn’t need to be around a father like that.

Post # 5
893 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

I’m in Kansas, but I don’t know anything about divorce here. Probably pretty standard. Do a Google search. 

Post # 6
6758 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

svnnh09:  SHe needs to lawyer up and get ready. I’d also suggest she screenshot all of his facebook activity (posting photos, relationship status, etc) as all of that will only improve her case. Sorry to hear about your friend, that’s a real dick move. 

Post # 8
2943 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I’m not in Kansas or a laywer, but I did a quick google search, and there is an at fault clause in the Kansas divorce proceedings, so that can work in your friends favor.  Document everything that is going on.

Also, this is going to be messy with the kid and being pregnant while the divorce is on going.  She is going to need a good lawyer and a lot of love and support.

Post # 9
12065 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

This guy is a total moron on top of a POS. She is going to be pregnant in front of the divorce judge, as he sits there with his new girlfriend? Not exactly father of the year material. 

I hope he gets taken for child support and spousal support so she can stay home the first year at least. 

Post # 10
6356 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2016

DOCUMENT EVERYTHING!!! I’m not in Kansas, but regardless, that is step one. 

I feel horrible for your friend! What an ASS!! So he just left his pregnant wife AND his 6-year old daughter?!?!

Post # 11
96 posts
Worker bee

Wow do I ever feel for her. How people like him exist is beyond me, but unfortunately I’ve come across several. All I can say is to document and save everything, keep all evidence. I just don’t know what else to say…pure shock.

Post # 12
149 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

Wow, what a POS. I’m sorry for your friend. Since he basically left his daughter then can your friend file for abondonment and full custody?

Post # 13
2630 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2017 - Valleybrook Country Club

My heart goes out to your friend!! What a horrible situation. He just left his daughter there like she was a souvineer he didn’t want??? WOW! That is so messed up to not only leave your young child, but your pregnant wife who you’ve been trying to have kids with?! I have your friend’s strength and courage in my thoughts and prayers! With a guy like that, thank goodness the girl is in your friends care!! Sorry I can’t really contribute, but I wish the best that can come out of this for her and those 2 children!

Post # 14
3103 posts
Sugar bee

Well, she can take comfort in the fact that his new girlfriend will be in her position in 3,2,1…

Post # 15
8441 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

Lawyer, file for emergency custody, and file for child support as soon as baby is born.  In addition, she needs to screen shot all the facebook activity, bank/finance activity, and document any texts/phone calls.  Also, STD test as soon as possible.  Lots of hugs and best of luck to her.

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