(Closed) Husband lied to me and now I feel duped

posted 1 year ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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Wannabee

It doesn’t sound ridiculous–it sounds like what happens when you marry someone after two months of dating. I’m sorry this is happening to you. I think you’re right to consider it a wake-up call about how much you actually know about–and how much you can trust–this guy.

Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2021

It’s a bit tough to feel sorry for you for choosing to enter a MARRIAGE with a man based off him telling you he is a good cook, when you haven’t even known him long enough to have ever sampled his cooking… 

Is this even real??

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2019 - City, State

You married a man because he’s a “great cook” but he’d never cooked for you? Bee, do your homework! If you marry someone after 2 months, you better spend those 2 months really digging into the person you’re agreeing to marry. You dont know this man. It’s not hard to lie for 2 months in a brand new relationship. Get an annulment and date for a while.. find out who this person actaully is.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper

Advice? Idk, don’t marry someone after 2 months based on (apparently the only reason) their cooking skills?

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper

Are you being serious?

Post # 7
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Busy bee

Lesson learned. If you haven’t been with someone long enough for them to cook a meal for you, it’s probably not wise to jump right to marriage.

You should be concerned about what else he is lying to you about. You can’t really know someone in 2 months, I’m sorry.

You might as well divorce. It doesn’t seem you had much respect for the seriousness of marriage and what that commitment means to begin with.  

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2019

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Post # 9
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Bumble bee

You married someone after two months.  Honestly, what did you expect?  At least now you know you prize honesty over your “foodie skills” turn-on. 

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2019 - City, State

Honestly, this “lie” doesn’t seem like a big deal to me. We all say shit to impress new partners…which is exactly what happened there. You dated for two months and you’re upset that he wasn’t as great of a cook as he said? 

While this isn’t as big of a deal as you’re making it out to be…you can not know someone after 2 months. That fact alone is enough to say you don’t know this guy, but his white lie about cooking skills is not why you should be concerned here. 

Post # 11
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Buzzing Beekeeper

CRUNCHY noodles?!!!

Post # 12
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Honey bee

Bwahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha (deep breath) hahahahahahahahahahahahaha.

Post # 13
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Blushing bee

People are always on their “best behaviour” when they first start dating. Unfortunately, some people even lie. I don’t think it’s wise to marry someone after two months but it is what it is. It sounds like you have a lot to learn about each other. Good luck, hopefully things work out for the best!

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2019 - City, State

sboom :  I feel like if this isn’t already an Onion article, it really should be

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I would question the character and judgment of anyone who would get married after 2 months. He exaggerated, albeit on a grand scale, but it wasn’t an outright lie. To be honest my side eye is aimed more at you for marrying someone because they said they were a great cook, which is subjective, and THEN didnt even bother to sample it before inviting a bunch of people over….oh yeah and getting MARRIED for that sole reason!

 

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