Post # 16
I suggested this to him! I was like, “hey it just got cold for the first time since our spring wedding – do you think maybe it was too big?” He basically was just like, “It didn’t really seem too big but IDK”.
Honestly, my ring doesn’t fit properly, but it’s because my extremeties are very prone to swelling. My ring is too tight in warm weather and too big in cold weather. This is why they’re insured and why I take them off for things like exercise, sleep, and showering. I think maybe his ring could be sized down a half a size for sure.
Post # 17
I noticed there are silver and titanium rings for like $20 or less on amazon. Is there any reason he shouldn’t be wearing sterling silver?
Like I said, his previous ring was white gold
Post # 18
Been there, done that. My H lost his ring before our first year of marriage was up. It was a smooth wear ring so it went on and off easily. He was constantly taking it off and playing with it.
One night we were out to dinner and I looked at his hand and said “where’s your ring”? That man looked at me like I was speaking a foreign language. He had no idea. Then he thought he had taken it off and left it at work. He called his buddy/colleague to ask what to do. He decided to go back to work and speak with security. Never did find it. To this day his buddy makes fun of him whenever we go out with him and his wife.
He now wears his father’s wedding band, that has a lot of sentimental value and he never takes it off. So he’s much more careful. It’s also a pretty tight ring so not as easy to play with. It irritated me at the time, but I actually love his fathers ring and it holds a lot of sentiment and memories with it anyways.
Post # 19
My husband hasn’t officially lost his ring (though it did spend about 6 months in a bag he left behind for work in a different city once…) but he lost some weight and his original ring is too big. So he got a pack of silicone ones. Obviously wears the camo one when the pack included classier ones like black and dark grey 🙄 but whatever, I’m glad he’s happy to wear anything. Agree that you should replace his good ring, as you said it’s covered anyway, but maybe do get him sized in the winter… I wanted to get my husband a titanium ring, there’s some really nice ones! But the silicone ones he can wear for work, so that’s what he’s happy with.
Post # 20
I have one for when my hands hurt and they are great!
Post # 21
Sterling silver does tarnish if not worn daily. It’s rather easy to clean up though. Toothpaste works well. You could do stainless steel as well.
Post # 22
Awh I’m sorry bee, I would be pretty upset if my husband lost his ring for sentimental reasons. I think getting a “nicer” ring for special occassions and wearing a silicone ring daily is a good compromise. Another option is that you could get a cheaper non silicone so if he lost it too it wouldn’t be so bad. We got my husbands 14k yellow gold ring a pawn shop for like $200 and there were definitely cheaper options too.
Post # 23
I’m sorry bee, that sucks!! Since it’s only been 7 months I would definitely get him a cheapo band for his daily wear and maybe reserve the nice ring for special occasions. But I totally get the sentimental value of his original ring being lost and I’d definitely be bummed- but it’s just a ring at the end of the day, and can be replaced.
Post # 24
My husband was tinkering around in the shop about a month after we married and accidentally threw his ring away with paper towels after washing his hands. Fortunately, we did find it. He thought I was going to be furious with him, but I wasn’t. I told him he didn’t have to worry about wearing it. The men in my family have always been very physical and work with their hands a lot, so none of them really wore their bands. It could actually be a hazard for them with their work and hobbies. I know his heart is mine, so I don’t worry about the symbol.
Post # 25
- Wedding: February 2017 - Seattle, WA
My husband lost his ring on our honeymoon while we were swimming in the ocean. It’s a silicon ring so I wasn’t concerned, and since then we’ve replaced it with 2 more silicon rings. He just can’t seem to hang onto them! He does have a “fancy” ring that was his grandpa’s that we used only for the ceremony, I can’t imagine him ever wearing it out in public though, it’s a little gaudy. I like your idea of him having a nice one to wear out on dates, etc. but not for everyday.
Post # 26
I like your idea it sounds like a nice compromise! And I think it will be kind cool to have a special occasion ring.
Post # 27
My husband lost his after a year… but he almost lost it on the way home from the wedding because he thought you had to take off jewelry to go through a metal detector and then he left it in the bin. The airport security guy was kind enough to chase us down with it.
My brother lost two… his first one very shortly after the wedding.
I think if it’s something you aren’t used to it’s easy to do.
Post # 28
FWIW, I have a gold colored silicone ring (has a slight shimmer to it) and on several occasions, friends or family have asked about my “new gold band” before they saw it up close!
Post # 29
We’ll if JM will replace a $400 ring for no charge, I’d definitely take advantage of that and get the nice ring back. Like you said, that’s what you paid for. Was it sized right? A ring should never really slip off that easily. Then let him get a silicone ring if he wants. Or you can get some tungsten one off overstock, they’re like $50. That’s what my husband has as his “real” ring.
Post # 30
+1 for get a titanium or tungsten ring. You can get some nice ones which are really inexpensive, and then don’t worry about the value. Also I would have him get sized at a jewellery store, I agree with those who mentioned if it fits well it shouldn’t just fly off his hand without him even noticing.