(Closed) Husband Made Sexual Comments To A Waitress! Trust Not Rebuilding.

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

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MissDAn:  Your opinions are one thing, but speaking about someone that you admittedly dont know as if your opinions are fact is cunty, IN MY OPINION. You are TELLING her that she is insecure. That you “know” she is insecure. Im sorry, are you psychic? Are you a psycologist? Are you an effing relationship counselor? Did a little bird tell you? Blab your opinions all you want but STFU about this womans character already! 

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Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2016

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Worker bee
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Post # 49
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2015

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MissDAn:  I just don’t know about you and how much sense you make. And I have to wonder about you losing it so easily, going on rants, and calling everyone insecure. How secure are you? Seriously, what are you doing? You don’t know OP or her relationship so stop diagnosing her. She is going through a hard time and is just looking for some support. I’m genuinely curious to know what your motive is.

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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

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MissDAn:  Wow, Im spanish now? LOLOLOL. I am somehow not surprised that you dont know your geography. 

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Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2016

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Post # 52
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Blushing bee
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MissDAn:  Also, way to out yourself as a hateful biggot on the interwebs.

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Worker bee
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Post # 55
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Blushing bee
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MissDAn:  You can’t hurt my feelings but good effort. 

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Worker bee
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Post # 58
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

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MissDAn:  And I am sure you know that you are hideous on the inside. No worries.

Post # 59
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Buzzing bee

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jeansaprincess: If this was a one-off thing, like everything was peachy keen and then this happened I think giving advice would be easier. But that’s not the case. Every time you respond on the thread you sort of reveal more things and it sounds like you have both been through a lot of hard stuff lately.

He lost his mother and you say you were kind of pushy towards him during that time of grieving. You gave birth and your child is ill and your husband isn’t giving you the support you want (maybe he’s still angry over the mother thing?). He wants intimacy and cuddling loviness and you’re so angry that you can’t return the feelings or actions. He’s making inappropriate comments to other women (frankly it wouldn’t matter if she was 35 instead of 17 because he’s a married man) and you’re very suspicious of him (snooping, downloading the app, etc.). He feels like you don’t trust him and you’re trying to catch him in a trap and you feel like you can’t trust him because of what you’ve heard. 

Basically, this is really complicated. I vote for counseling. 

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Helper bee

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MissDAn:  I looked at a couple of your previous posts and I noticed that your parents are separated right now and I can imagine it’s an emotional/difficult time for you. Maybe you feel attacked and you’re getting defensive, but name calling (on either end) doesn’t help anything and just escalates the situation. Why don’t you take a deep breath, leave the site for a bit and come back when you’ve calmed down? This thread has just become an argument.

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