(Closed) Husband says he is not happy

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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778 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Oh my God, I’m so sorry. Is there someone you can stay with tonight? Or a friend you can call to have come over?

Post # 4
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299 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

He can’t do this “forever”?  It’s been four months!  Were you guys having problems before you got married?

Post # 5
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1330 posts
Bumble bee

WTF? Did he even give any reasons????!!!! His statement is pretty broad.

Post # 8
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5296 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

@icantdothis:  did he voice any of this before the wedding? I find it hard to believe that you would have changed personalities in 4 months. 

Post # 9
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595 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

Wow. How long were you together before getting married? No way he just up and decided on such a major thing in 4 months, especially being so closed about it. I hope it works out for you 🙁

Post # 10
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989 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Is there someone else?  I’ve only very rarely heard of something like this happening where there wasn’t a third party involved.  I hate to go there but…

Post # 11
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3583 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Wow and what a jerk. He clearly has no idea what an adult relationship is since part of the job is being your partners cheerleader. Ugh, I’m so sorry he is putting you through this; it’s incredibly unfair!! 🙁

Post # 12
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2622 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I am very sorry and hope that in the end it is for the best, whatever that may be or how long it takes.

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

This is so horrible.  I’m so sorry.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Would either of you be interested in councilling before looking into an annulment? Regardless, you might want to go to deal with this. I’m so sorry… 🙁

Post # 15
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1330 posts
Bumble bee

This is unbelievable. What MAN does that?

He is supposed to be your husband. What if you got sick? Or had a baby? Would he call you needy because you asked him to get you pickles and ice cream at four am?

What sort of wife was he looking for? A put up, shut up and put out gal?

Honestly…how can he be so cold to shut the door after four months? That is COLD. I think you should both see a counsellor first!!!!

 

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Hugs.

What a jerk. I am so sorry he has put you in this position, but if he is not willing to fight for your marriage it cannot be saved.

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