Husband says sex is not "priority," intellectual union more, and 7-day experimen

posted 1 year ago in Intimacy
Post # 61
235 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2023

solnishko1186 :  I agree. That’s why I said it’s up to her to decide if this is the life she wants. There is a good chance he is not going to change for her. 

Post # 62
596 posts
Busy bee

I suggest sit him down and talk to him. Tell him that you know that sex isn’t that important to him, but it is VERY IMPORTANT TO YOU. Sex is very important in a marriage.That you have desires and needs that only your husband should fulfill. Ask him if he’s okay with having an unhappy wife when it comes to your sex life. Just be honest with him and tell him that you are not satisfied and you find your sex life boring. That may hurt his feelings but it may also be the wake up call he needs to make you happy.

Definitely tell him it’s not just your problem. Marriage involves TWO people, therefore it will require TWO people to resolve the problem at hand. Let him know you won’t be able to go the rest of your life with an unhappy sex life.  

Post # 63
10660 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

thiebaud2018 :  

Look up cerebral narcissist.

Post # 64
6437 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 1997

anikaof9 :  +1. Excellent analysis.

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