Husband says sex is not "priority," intellectual union more, and 7-day experimenposted 1 year ago in Intimacy
- 1 year ago
I suggest sit him down and talk to him. Tell him that you know that sex isn’t that important to him, but it is VERY IMPORTANT TO YOU. Sex is very important in a marriage.That you have desires and needs that only your husband should fulfill. Ask him if he’s okay with having an unhappy wife when it comes to your sex life. Just be honest with him and tell him that you are not satisfied and you find your sex life boring. That may hurt his feelings but it may also be the wake up call he needs to make you happy.
Definitely tell him it’s not just your problem. Marriage involves TWO people, therefore it will require TWO people to resolve the problem at hand. Let him know you won’t be able to go the rest of your life with an unhappy sex life.