(Closed) Husband stays up late at night fb, youtube text messages and susupicios

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Your formatting makes this post impossible to read.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@ChemistryBride:  +1

I would have no problem reading this, and responding appropriately, but the text all over in one giant block makes it impossible to follow.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

@LiliKitty:  And the lack of proper punctuation doesn’t help either. I am the reigning queen of overusing ellipses, but they get lonely without periods, commas, and capital letters.

OP, if you’ll fix this, I will read every word and give you a well thought out, heartfelt response. But if it’s not worth your time to make it readable, it’s not worth my time to read.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper

Wow, +4, I just can’t read the message text, it’s giving me a headache just looking at the first two lnes.

UPDATE: OMG I cannot beleive I read all that, please please don’t write in that format in the future – break up your thoughts into sentences and paragraphs. It was really painful.

You are right to be concerned. Sounds like your husband is unfaithful. Perhaps serially – as in, he may have cheated with several people. It’s not for certain but there’s lots of strong hints. I suggest couple’s therapy. If he won’t go to couple’s therapy, go to a therapist, just yourself. You need someone to talk to who can help get you through this. Sorry to hear you are feeling so depressed right now.

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

So despite the formatting I read almost the whole thing.  It’s pretty obvious that your husband is a jerk who has cheated and probably is still cheating on you.  You have way more than suspicions, you have almost irrefutable evidence.  It doesn’t sound like he’s taking your marriage very seriously. I’m really sorry that you’re going through this, no one deserves to be treated this way.

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

Holy crap, girl. WHY are you still with this guy? He has cheated on you at least twice now, and is trying to cheat many more! Not only that but he’s looking at porn when he’s NOT cheating on you! It sounds like you are his absolute last resort when it comes to sex.

THAT ISN’T YOUR FAULT. Some men are just only turned on by forbidden/random/novel sex. Your husband sounds like an ASSHOLE. Unless you’re happy sharing him with a ton of other women, you should leave now. He is obviously cheating.

How old is he?

ETA: He’s cheated on you TWICE and you’ve only been married a YEAR? Most couples are still in the honeymoon phase at one year. You’re doing yourself a serious disservice staying with this guy, and you don’t deserve it. I think you ought to pack your bags and don’t look back when he starts in with the “Baby, please”

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Your husband sounds like a cheating dirtbag. I’d start packing if I were you, and get far away. 

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@angela59255:  It is difficult to read, but I managed to get through it.

Listen, I know it is going to be hard to do, but you need to LEAVE him.  After reading this, there is not a single doubt in my mind that he is cheating, likely with multiple women.  Maybe one of these situations, if it was an isolated incident, could have an innocent explanation (though I high doubt it), but ALL of them?  He is a dirtbag, and no one deserves to get treated like that.  Please, find a friend or family member to stay with and leave.  And get tested immediately. 

I am very sorry you have to deal with this, but you cannot let yourself keep getting subjected to such awful treatment. 

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Why did you ignore the warning signs and text messages the first time???? 

If he hasn’t physically cheated on you by now, he has at least emotionally cheated on you MANY times. When you defend him saying he’s not used to not being single, that is a cop out. Every man who gets married knows what being faithful means when they get married. 

He has shown you time and time again that he does not respect you or your marriage.

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

@angela59255:  Don’t buy it. He obviously wasnt having erectile dysfunction when he was “thrusting it in” ol’ what’s-her-face up there.

If you don’t feel attractive, that sucks, but do you really think you’re going to start feeling MORE attractive living with a man who’s stepping out on you all the time? Do you really think you’re going to have the energy and motivation to make the diet/exercise/grooming/whatever changes you need to make in order to start feeling attractive again when you’re having to deal with epic asshattery like this?

You need to get out and work on YOU, and when you feel great about yourself, you’ll have a better chance of attracting a man who’s equally great. But if this guy is still pulling this 21-year-old BS at 32…the odds are zilch that he is this guy.

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