- 3 years ago
Anyone with a SO that’s a cop??
So my husband wants to join the police acadamy and become a cop. This freaks me out. I want to support him. I really do but he just isn’t cop material. He is very passive. I mean very. He’s not a quick thinker on his toes. He cannot read people easily. He takes everyone at face value. He’s a very slow driver and not aggressive. My husband also has come confidence issues that we are currently trying to work through. Because of his confidence issues I know I cant point blank tell him these things. Please don’t get me wrong and think I am down grading him because all these “flaws” are actually things I love about him. I grew up with a VERY controlling father who works for a Correctional Facility. I’ve heard some of these horror stories and my fathers heart is kinda hard. My husband’s soft deamenor is so attractive to me.
He wants to be in law enforcement SO bad. His ultimate goal is to be a detective. I know he would be great at that!! He can be very analytical but he’s just a very slow thinker and it takes him a long while to process things. It just kind of sucks that he has to start out as a cop first. Anyone know of anything he could do? Besides forensics? I’m a nurse and he always says how he could never handle so much science.
I’m just afraid of him getting hurt. I feel like it’s a huge possibility with his type of personality. Also what’s this thing about “Badge Bunnies” I keep reading about =/