Post # 17
@adoc86: WOW! That is absolutely ridiculous! I would have flipped. Well, my husband just informed that I don’t even know how many times he has stuck up for me! He just said that he has had to tell his mom and sister to both shut up about me not having a job. I have ben unemployed since January. and it’s NOT because im not trying! I can’t count the number of places I have applied to. I am babysitting now, but now the money I am making is not enough for them. Now I am upset, because i feel like a bitch for saying he needs to stick up for me when he has been all along, and kinda pissed that he never told me they’ve been complaining about me being unemployed.
Post # 18
I’d rather be a dramatic bitch, that a doormat in law. WW 3 would have broken out if my SIL came into my bedroom like that.
Post # 19
@bklynbridetobe: Trust me, I wanted to soooo bad!! It kinda sounds like I am a push over on here. lol but anyone who knows me I am FAR from a pushover. It’s just my husband and i have had plenty of arguments over how “mean” I am for being honest and telling people to STFU or get over it, it’s my way or the highway
Post # 20
@cgrantham12: If it is a big issue to you, it needs to be addressed whether he agrees it is a big issue or not. There are things I’ve gotten mad about in the past that Fiance thought were completely silly, but he still worked with me to find a compromise. If it’s bothering you then that’s all that matters. No one can take away the legitimacy of your feelings.
Post # 20
My daughter is going through this, only much worse!! It started as a “dirty house”, then, as a house that needed to be rearranged by his sis, then, when she was expecting their first baby…she was a “ho” and it was “not his baby”. Then, when the baby was born, thirteen members of his family paraded through the hospital room where the new parents and baby were. (not one or two at a time) Then, she insulted the baby by saying she had a unibrow, she was too white, etc. NOW, after 5 years, they are expecting another child (a boy). Instead of being happy, “sis” is ripping it up again; saying this isn’t his. PLEASE!! I LOVE YOU, SON-in-LAW….PLEASE TAKE UP FOR MY DAUGHTER!! But, alas, you won’t. You never do. So, to all of you out there who wonder where this is going? RUN!!!! RUN!!!! RUN!!!! I’m begging them to move, at least, 200 miles away. I would miss them all like crazy, but they would finally have a life of their own. The only time he has been offended is when his sis started saying he didn’t love his mom since he met my daughter. Seriously?
Post # 21
cgrantham12 : First of all, yes, you should let it go that she asked if you clean your litter box. Who cares. She wasn’t saying your whole house was dirty, in fact, if that’s all she could find wrong, you must keep a very clean house. Let it go.
Second, yes, your bedroom is your personal space to you. Apparently his mom and sister babies him and cleaned his bedroom for him. But, he is married now and doesn’t understand your feeling of having a “personal, private” space. He doesn’t get it. So, you have to be the one to set the boundaries. Do it quietly, diplomatically and very nicely. Take one aside and whisper if you have to but say, hey, I appreciate your help but I’ll clean my own bedroom. Your more than welcome to help anywhere else but, shhhhhh, we have personal things in our room. That will shit her up and get her out if your room. I honestly, you just g Ave to train some people on what should be common courtesy, unspoken etiquette. Have fun with that bunch. Looks like you may have a little training to do.
Post # 22
luann : Did you seriously create an account just to revive a zombie thread?
Out of curiosity, how did you even find it?