- 8 years ago
- Wedding: October 2009
So this is me ranting, sorry if it’s annoying, haha.
As some of you may remember, my husband is currently off on the crazy-long Bachelor Party for my friend, Groom. It was a five (turned into six) day Bachelor Party where they drove to Chicago (from New Hampshire) and spent the weekend there, and then drove back. Currently, they’re in the driving-back stage of the trip.
So anyway, the last time I saw Husband was Wednesday morning. We had a sweet morning that was pretty leisurely – I didn’t rush to work because I knew I wouldn’t see Husband again for six days. Anyway, before he left (this might have been Tuesday evening), I asked him to bring his cell phone with him so that he could call me and incase of an emergency. He said he didn’t think he’d have time to really call me, and I told him that four of the other guys going (out of six other guys) have significant others and that they would probably call them at some point, so he could just call me whenever they call their girls. I also mentioned that I didn’t want to call him because I didn’t know when he would be busy doing stuff and I didn’t want to call at an inconvenient time, so he should call me. Then I stated that I really just wanted him to call me and let me know when they got to Chicago so I wouldn’t worry and he said “Okay.”
Fast-forward to this past weekend. According to the other girls who have boyfriends on the trip, the boys have implemented a one-time 30-second phone call per day rule. As in, the boys are only allowed to call their girls once a day and talk for 30 seconds. Okay, no biggy, I thought. Husband’s only going to call me one time anyway when they get to Chicago and that’ll take less than 30 seconds for him to tell me.
So on Friday, one of the girls tells me that the boys have made it to Chicago because her boyfriend called her. So I’m sitting around on Friday, waiting for Husband to call me. He doesn’t.
He doesn’t call me Friday.
He doesn’t call me Saturday.
Saturday night, I’m getting upset. Why hasn’t he called me? I vent to Bride about it, who tells Groom when they have their talk (that lasted WAY longer than 30 seconds, by the way). When she gets off the phone, she tells me that Groom is going to talk to Husband about calling me and let him know I’ve been expecting him to call.
He doesn’t call me Sunday.
Supposedly, the boys are now on their way BACK from Chicago and will get home sometime tonight. Husband has been gone since Wednesday and hasn’t called me ONCE. According to Bride, Husband told Groom that he was only going to call me if there was an emergency, but that wasn’t what our agreement was! He said “Okay” when I asked him to call me when they got to Chicago, not “Call me if there’s an emergency!”
So I’m peev’d. What do you guys think?