(Closed) Husband’s female coworker can’t take a hint.

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
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Sugar bee
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llevinso :  I agree 100%. Maybe DH gets a discount or maybe there isn’t anywhere of quality to eat out or maybe they can’t affird it? Maybe her DH doesn’t get a lot of time for lunch so it’s easier that way. Who knows. 

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happiekrappie :  Totally understand. I imagine in this case a scenario where the *only* place they can have lunch is this cafe (as unrealistic as this is). DH in this case should really try to be more direct. 

 

Post # 137
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Buzzing bee

I’m a Scorpio. But I’m also 34. Learning to work through things that make us uncomfortable or bored comes with age, experience, and maturity. Anxiety encourages us to think solely of ourselves almost constantly. Learning to think more of others helped with my own anxiety. How to extend grace to other humans is one of the best things you can learn for your own mental well being. 

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Helper bee

I’m a Scorpio and don’t act like this at all, and I have anxiety. 

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Bumble bee

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sarandah :  Have you considered therapy? It seems from this and other posts you have a lot to unpack with respect to your relationship with your parents and your husband, your insecurities related to your appearance, and your general response to social situations and other people. Universities often make it available to students at fairly reasonable rates.

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Bumble bee

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sarandah :  It’s a long thread. Have you found it helpful? What have you learned?

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Sugar bee

I’m closing this thread now.

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