(Closed) Husband/SO buying something you wouldn’t necessary buy…

posted 7 years ago in Married Life
  • poll: How would you feel about the bike rack purchase?
    Fine, it's not a big deal, you'll probably get a little use out of it. CHILL! : (11 votes)
    55 %
    I'd have issues with it, it's an extra expense you don't need right now. : (8 votes)
    40 %
    Other : (1 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
    7431 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2009

    I would ask him how often he sees it actually getting used, and if it would be a wise decision based on your upcoming bills.  You aren’t nagging when you are trying to make a smart money decision that suits you both.  Just politely tell him that you reneg your previous answer, and think that he should reconsider

    Post # 5
    6572 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2010

    I think since you already told him ok, he didn’t do anything wrong. We all make those mistakes of buying things we don’t need. As long as we can afford it, I usually just let him. Now you know for next time to be more direct about your feelings about this kind of stuff.

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