(Closed) Hypothetical: If you and your SO were separated, what would you do?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: If you an your SO could not legally live in either of your home countries, what would you do?
    Live separate lives in our own countries but stay together as a couple. : (3 votes)
    2 %
    Both move to a new country and start your lives over where you could be together. : (93 votes)
    77 %
    One or the other would immigrate illigally. : (1 votes)
    1 %
    Break up - this is no way to live a life. : (24 votes)
    20 %
  • Post # 17
    1042 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    We would move to another country without a doubt. I could still visit the states correct? So I’d see family and friends on vacation. The main difference would be possesion related, and that  wouldn’t bother me. I can replace any material thing, but I can’t replace FI!

    Post # 18
    300 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    Move somewhere together for sure. He is my life and my new family. Not the say that my old family don’t mean the world to me but, if he’s the one I have to commit to him and he to me. We would move.

    Post # 19
    4495 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I’d just move to a new country altogether. I find it extremely unlikely that this would be the case with Canada and the US, though. Only if, like a PP stated, there was some severe criminal actions involved.

    Post # 20
    1379 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    I’ve thought about this too. S/O is from a country with high visa fraud+risk of terrorism so it’s a possibility (although we don’t have any of the common factors that cause people to get denied). We’ve already been interested in living in a third country in the future anyway (somewhere in Europe) so we’d work extra hard to make happen.


    Post # 21
    1425 posts
    Bumble bee

    This sort of happened to my aunt and uncle.  

    He’s from NZ and tried to get citizenship for Canada.  Because he’s lived in many countries for work the gov’t wanted him to go to each country and get a criminal record check, which was not doable and a load of crap. I’m not sure what exactly went down but I do know they just gave up.  They’re living in another country now. 

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