(Closed) I absolutely hated my wedding

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 46
2091 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I am so sorry sweetie. Your dad was just as uninterested in being involved in the wedding as your mom was, he just showed it by being as cheap as possible. To be honest, I would rather elope rather than go through that nonsense. At the end of the day, you are happily married to a wonderful man, and you should focus on that.

I agree that you should do a vow renewal, so you can put this issue to rest once and for all. To be honest, you should not invite your parents. They had their wedding, and it left a bitter taste in your mouth for years. Just invite the people you wanted to come that could not that last time and/or close friends. If not, you can always do something for just the two of you, maybe a nice weddingmoon, so that you can get the wedding you want plus the honeymoon that you never had. Good luck to you, dear!

Post # 47
558 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Definitely have a vow renewal your way. 


I do want to say I enjoyed your story, not because of your suffering but because its YOUR story. It may not seem funny now but in 20 years when your are telling your kids about how cheap grandpa was and how every vendor was a family friend and all the horrible things that went wrong. 20 years from now this story will be proof to your children about what marriage and love is all about and your kids will enjoy your story and will laugh and grandpa about it. :). I am sorry for your disappointment, now go enjoy planning a real party for you and your hubby!!! 

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