Post # 1
Hi fellow bees! This is my first time here. I’ve been a lurker on this site for months but finally caved in to join because I STUMBLED ACROSS MY E-RING YESTERDAY!!! My boyfriend of five years asked me to look for something in a drawer for him and BAM! It was there! I don’t think he realized just what he left in there. I suspected that he’s had that ring since November though. Now, I’m kind of bummed that I’ve seen it before he’s had a chance to propose. Should I just pretend that I didn’t see anything? Help!
Post # 3
It’s really not a big deal. Lots of women preview their ring, or even pick it out themselves. Just brush it off and think about something else if it bugs you. Trust me, many women here would LOVE to know that the ring is in their boyfriend’s possession!
Post # 4
Don’t feel guilty since its not your fault, plus it’s probably for his mistress anyway. Jk jk. It’s not like you were snooping for it, so just see it as fate for you to find out. I would just act surprised. I totally knew my proposal was coming and did my nails before he picked me up ha ha, but I should add that it was still super special to me (with tears and everything) and I wouldn’t change a thing. So I don’t think it will ruin the proposal. I wouldn’t tell him you saw it though unless it really bothers you. Good look and happy waiting.
Post # 5
@LittleAudrey: AHHH! the mistress! Why didn’t think of that?! . Hehe. I definitely have no plans on telling him that I saw it. He’s already a little upset that I know TOO much about it. The ring’s center stone is his grandma’s orignial e-ring and I was there when she offered it to him (I guess to us since she was really looking at me the whole time. Heheh…the lady loves me and the feeling is mutual). But yes, I am very anxiously awaiting the time when he does propose so I can finally try the ring on!
Post # 6
haha aww…I know what you mean but seeing the ring won’t make your proposal any less special 🙂 So…try and forget you saw it 🙂 lol Even though, if I knew where it was I’d probably be visiting her every night until she was mine!! haha