(Closed) 'I already bought the dress'…

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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9917 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

Can you give more information about the back story?

Post # 5
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1402 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

If she only wants to be in the wedding because she already bought the dress and does not want to continue her friendship with you, I do not think it is okay for her to be in the wedding.  More backstory would definitely be useful in this situation, though.

Post # 6
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2335 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I don’t understand the problem.  You said something, she got upset, you apologized.  She said she’d still be in the wedding and noted that she already bought her Bridesmaid or Best Man dress.

Don’t over-analyze her words.  You apologized, that’s all you can do.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’d be interested in hearing more of the story, just to understand a bit better, but if she were really, really upset, having the dress already wouldn’t make that much of a difference. She’d quit the wedding anyway. Sounds to me like she knows she’ll get over this and want to be in the wedding again. 

Post # 9
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717 posts
Busy bee

if she’s still upset with you, after you apologized and such, then it’s her decision but she should let you know asap because you still have a wedding to plan.  maybe she can return the dress or sell it online?  

Post # 10
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3303 posts
Sugar bee

Give her the money for the dress and take her out. I wouldn’t want her there if that is how she feels. I only want people beside me who truly want to be there.

Post # 11
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’d like to know how you insulted her, too.  Was it that big of a deal that it could cause her to drop out of your wedding?  But if you apologized, and she’s still upset, I’d probably just offer to pay her back for the dress and let her back out.

Post # 12
Hostess
16213 posts
Honey Beekeeper

Closed at the request of the OP.

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