(Closed) I am a BM in my friends wedding … (vent)

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@blue44:  You need to talk to the bride about what happened and how the other girls were rude to you. Are they friends of yours or just the brides? I would have said something seeing as the bride wanted them. Any issues in the Bridal Party need to be addressed. I would talk to the bride.

Post # 4
1488 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@blue44:  I would ask the Maid/Matron of Honor what they plan on doing about the reimbursement you are owed for the labels they never used.

Then I would give the labels to the bride and tell her that you had them made especially for her shower, unfortunately they were never used but you still wanted her to see them.

Post # 5
3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I think you should have address the issue there and then. I think you should try to keep the bride out of the drama, if you give the labels to her just say hey I got these for you but people didn`t use them I still want you to have them.

Post # 7
1375 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I think that’s a great idea to use the labels for your wedding gift instead.

I would suggest to try to keep the bride out of this.  I know these are her friends rather than yours, but since she should not be involved in planning her pre-wedding parties, its best if you try to deal with their crap yourself.  (And it is crap they’re giving, what mean bridesmaids!)

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