(Closed) I am a horrible person :(

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
9482 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

@colli459:  No reason to feel like a horrible person because you’re frustrated with him. I’ve felt like this with Fiance as well.  I was so mad at him the other day because he promised me he’d take care of the laundry.  Well, I walked in after working 12 hour shift at night to see the washer still filled with wet clothes.  I wanted to throw them on him while he was sleeping.  Hahaha.  FI feels the same way about me sometimes as well.  We’re only human!  Just as long as you never turn to real violence, there really is no harm.

Post # 4
673 posts
Busy bee

If you end up saying anything, try to keep it focused on the thing he can control – fixing the car.

I agree with you on the concept of not leaving things in your car, but the theft responsibility ultimately lies with the criminal instead of your guy. Don’t get on his case for the actions of a criminal.

I have a little sympathy with him because I’ve had to deal with this kind of thing after an accident. I had all the time in the world to get the car into the shop, but I chose to wait to get an investigator from the insurance company out first so the payment process would (in theory) be a little smoother. Yeah, of course it started to rain. My car was rocking quite the creative garbage bag rear door for a couple of days.

Post # 5
101 posts
Blushing bee

πŸ™‚ If you are a horrible person for thinking that, so am I.
I honestly am so unsympathetic when people’s issues are their own fault. It’s something I’m working on. It’s just hard when you can see the simple solution. If you don’t want _____ don’t do _______.

Sorry about your car by the way.At least something super valuable wasn’t stolen?

Post # 6
3120 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012


Post # 7
1798 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011


you have so much more restraint than I do. I would have said everything you’re thinking. Hopefully this will be a wakeup call for him. Good luck!

Post # 9
81 posts
Worker bee

Oh hunny, I’d totally feel the same way πŸ™‚
 Like @MilksMom says, Men πŸ˜› 

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