(Closed) I am a very bad person, my confession

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 47
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998 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@MissNoodles:  BAHAHAHAHA! That one made me snort. 

Post # 48
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193 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@mixtapehearts:  I don’t mean to offend anybody, and I am not saying it will cause noticibly adverse effects every time, but there is countless research that shows chronic over exposure to stress hormones from the mother can have an effect on a developing baby. Lots of things influence a developing baby, in good ways too. If the food the mother eats and pre-natal vitamins influence a baby’s development, why is it hard to believe that hormones can? I am not suggesting it will ruin a child’s life, but it does have an influence.

I went back and read your post about your situation and I am very sorry that happened to you. I hope the very best for you and your child from now on. I hope I didn’t offend you at all. 

Post # 49
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Hi incognito. not going to add any advice because a lot off sensible things have been said by other bees. just wanted to say- do NOT torment yourself to the point of self hatred over this. yes, you did a very wrong thing. yes, you and your fiancee need to work on forgiveness and trust. yes your cousin and you have a lot to work through. but we have all done stupid awful things to one extent or another. i know the feeling of hating yourself for something that should never have happened and it tears you apart loathing yourself- hate the action, not yourself. u are only human and you have/will take responsibility for your actions. big hugs and know that your not a bad person x

Post # 50
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Newbee

To the people saying not to tell…what if this was you? What if your husband has been fooling around with your family behind your back? I would want to know. Of course it would severely damage the relationship with your cousin but in the end, it’s better to find out sooner than later…and better to come from one of the people doing it and not finding out later some other horrible way. He is obviously an a-hole and by not telling her, you are helping condone this type of behaviour. If she is truly remorseful and feeling bad about it, then she needs to come clean and take responsibility.

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