- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
This is my second wedding as the first was very small and nothing like I wanted. This one, FH and I are paying for the entire thing ourselves and EVERYONE still believes they have a right to interject their opinions! I just really don’t want to hear it! FMIL is the WORST! OMG! I am a HUGE DYIer and she came over and I showed her my AMAZING card box that I made and she said… Ya know Mrs. sometimes smaller can be more elegant! OH NO YOU DIDN’T!!! She is the leader of the, “this is your second wedding, why does it have to be such a big deal?”, band wagon and everyone seems to want to jump on for the ride! UGH! My Mom is not much better! She is making the bridesmaid dresses and the cake. (At her request, not ours) And ALL she has done is COMPLAIN about everything! We hate Fondant and didn’t want it on our cake…. So what is she making our cake from…. OF COURSE FONDANT! OH YUCK! I have 6 BM’s and all I hear is why did you have to have so many??? It sometimes just seems to much to take… and I wish I would have eloped!!! LOL We have not asked ANYONE for any help or opinions, but they always want to give them, like we are little kids! MOB and Future Mother-In-Law both are saying I have bit off more than I can chew with everything that I am doing and that may be, but I will go to my grave before I admit it to either of them!!! It is going to be SPECTACULAR even if I have to stay up for 3 weeks straight to get it done! LOL FH is WONDERFUL! Him and I have made 500 tissue paper flowers for our Pomanders with no help from anyone…. And that is exactly the way we want it… Why can’t everyone just be happy for us? I don’t get it!