Post # 16
emma1tekin: sweetheart, I am so sorry you are living this nightmare. From what you’ve written, your husband to be sounds like a nice person who loves you, and any compassionate human will understand you are a victim of abuse. I’m assuming he has no idea this is happening to you and I think he deserves to know. If he were the one being abused, I am sure you would accept him and love him, flaws and all. You will be a lovely bride and your hair will grow back once that monster stops tearing it out.
Post # 17
Please please please understand that leaving your husband because he is abusing you is NOT frowned upon in the arab culture! (And if anyone “talks” you should not care) He has no right to hurt you or your mother, youneed to contact the police and lawyers and get things straight, this is not ok!
You got some good advice on how to grow your hair back healthily and what to wear for your wedding. Its also very important that you don’t rush the marriage just to get away, take your time with this so you don’t regret not enoying your day. I am so happy you have found someone that will make you happy, my heart goes out to you. xx