I am feeling a little sad that the big day is over. Is this normal?

posted 2 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Did you feel a little sad once your wedding was over?
    Yes, I was really sad and dont know why because I am happy that I am married. : (14 votes)
    27 %
    I was a little sad but got over it quickly. : (17 votes)
    33 %
    No I was not sad at all. : (20 votes)
    38 %
    Other- Leave comment : (1 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 16
    Member
    184 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2017

    blackrosegirl :  I think this is just normal because there is that “wedding high” when you’re happy about everything. But when the high is over, you start looking for it again, thus feeling sad. We got married exactly 4 months ago (April 22) and I still feel a bit sad but it’s because I want to correct/re-do certain things which did not go as planned on our wedding day. But I can’t do anything about that anymore. :p

    Post # 17
    Member
    1590 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2017

    So normal! It’s like when a big holiday ends, or an important event or birthday. You’ve been planning something for so long and then it’s over. It will pass!

    Post # 18
    Member
    756 posts
    Busy bee

    Ah, the post wedding slump… How I don’t miss that a aspect of being married!

    It’s absolutely normal and your idea of planning some other bits and pieces- weekends away etc- is an excellent plan. that’s what helped wean me off the planning high!

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