(Closed) I am getting worried.

posted 9 years ago in Photos/Videos
Post # 3
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398 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2009

I would start calling!  5 to 10 parties a night.  Just simple explain that you have numbers due to the caterer,etc and it’s important to know who will be attending. 

Good Luck!

Post # 4
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74 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I know this will probably be a huge pain, but I think you need to call everyone who has not RSVPed and ask if they are coming.  While it may take a while and be annoying, it will save you a lot of grief in the long run.  It’s better than not knowing!  That way you can be prepared for how many are actually coming and how much of everything you will need!

Post # 5
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699 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I agree you should start calling. This will also ease your mind. Split up the list though. Ask your parents to call their family and friends, his parents to call theirs and each of you call your own guests. This will make it easier for you and no one person will have to make 100 calls!

Post # 6
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1019 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

Hey girl,

Take a deep breath, drink a glass of water, and take a look at the following related thread: http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/rsvp-follow-up-email

If I were you I would start by calling or e-mailing the people whom you "know" are coming but whose RSVPs you have yet to receive. Once you have a firm yes from these people, maybe you can enlist a couple of friends (your mother? MOH? BMs?) to help you contact other people who have not yet RSVPed.

Let us know how it goes!

Miss Rain

Post # 7
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228 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

Get your list of people who have not rsvpd and give your parents the list of their friends or family to call and ask if they will attend or not. Same goes with fiances side. I would be stressed out too. Get the parents on it and you will get some response I guarentee it! 

Post # 8
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228 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

p.s. we have the same wedding date!!! My deadline for rsvps is this friday, I know I will have to sic the parents on the people that have not rsvpd by then, and then I will be emailing late rsvper like crazy! 

Post # 10
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237 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

I agree it’s time to start calling and I really think it should be split up between several of you as someone earlier mentioned. This shouldn’t fall on all your shoulders. Divy it up between both sets of parents, your Fiance and yourself and maybe even a few bridal party members who would feel comfortable calling friends or relatives.

Good luck! I think you’ll feel much better once you get the calls out and start getting answers.

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