Post # 1
So my boyfriend and I have the best relationship ever. He is kind and thoughtful, we’ve been dating for 11 months. I am going crazy. He told me all I have to do now is sit back and wait for the proposal. I can’t keep my mind busy, every minute I am thinking of it, waiting and wondering, my grandmother is giving us her wedding ring, and I love it. I have a family heirloom and he wants a beach wedding, I mean we’ve talked about it and I KNOW it’s going to happen, but I am freaking out, I want to plan and think about everything, but it’s hard. I mean, everything seems like it’s going in slow mo and my brain is going miles a minute just thinking about it…..
But it’s going to happen, so should I start planning now or should I hold off? What should I do, I know we have to save, but wouldn’t it be nice to start making a list of what it would take?
Post # 3
As hard as it is, just sit back and try to relax. I know waiting isn’t easy, but once he proposes all the excitement will begin but so will all the planning.
You can start to look at things now, but don’t get overwhelmed in it. Try to enjoy other things in the meantime.
Post # 4
I haven’t gotten a whiff of hints about engagement, but I’ve probably had a running wedding folder since I was 16. 😛
Don’t buy or pay for anything, but start making your folder if you’re looking forward to it!
Post # 5
I’m in the same boat as you! We’ve been dating almost the same time as you, and I know a proposal is imminent. I’m so anxious as well, but I have a general idea of when it will happen, and I’m so excited. We just have to sit tight and paint our nails 😉 Waiting sucks, but I’m actually kind of excited to be waiting now that I know it IS going to happen, because once he asks me, it’s going to be such an amazing surprise.
Post # 6
Thanks guys, I guess it’s just in the frustration of waiting around for the moment every girl dreams of. 😀 So I think I’ll just hold out and not go absolutly crazy…