(Closed) I am going to EAT at my wedding reception… are you?

posted 5 years ago in Food
Post # 3
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Busy bee

We did something similar to your plan (as you’ll see in recaps), we had a sweetheart table and we got our food and ate. We were NOT missing out on the food! A few people came up to us to say hello or get a photo, but for the most part we got to enjoy a few moments to ourselves while we enjoyed the food and drink. It was great!

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

The food at my reception is important to me. It’s good, it’s wholesome, and it’s being made by a family (Who owns a restaraunt in town) I grew up with. I will not sacrifice *anything* for that dinner!

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

the food is the most important part to me too. i’m inviting people who know me well, so they shouldn’t be offended when i say “i’m eating right now and i’d like to finish my food first” lol

 

my cousin did everything in the same order that you mentioned. entrance, first dance, mom and dad dances, dinner, toss, dancing, cake, dancing, bouquet and garter, dancing.

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2013 - UK

@LilDrAnya:  **** right. Fiance and I love food, and over half of our budget will go on food and drink. That’s how it should be, IMO.

We’re having either scallops with chorizo, rocket, and pea puree to start, or a vegetable and goat’s cheese tartlet. Mains are either duck in a cherry and shallot sauce, or wild vegetable and truffle oil risotto. Then we have a selection of desserts.

Evening buffet is as yet undecided, but I want a selection of salads with wild flowers, rabbit and rocket sandwiches, and scones with jam and clotted cream, amongst other things.

Of all the things you skimp on… food is not one of them. Right?

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011 - Baby boy 12/2015

@LilDrAnya:  Yes eat. We did and loved it. It was delicious. It was a good time to share with others.

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

The food at our reception is going to be amazing, so I too will make sure I take time to enjoy it!

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@LilDrAnya:  I don’t think this sounds ridiculous at all.  I’m hoping I’ll be able to eat (sometimes I have trouble eating when I’m anxious/nervous and I’m sure I’ll be dealing with a considerable amount of nerves on my wedding day).  I think it will help that we’re having a plated dinner, though … I doubt anyone will really expect us to walk around to every table and mingle while they’re being served and trying to eat.

 

Food was also really important to my fiance and I.  We chose a caterer who is absolutely amazing, and I seriously want to eat all of the options.  He runs a restaurant in town, and we’re planning a date night there soon just so we can eat more of his delicious food.  Smile

 

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’ve never heard of such a thing!  If we’re paying for it, we’re eating it!  Food is very important to us too, especially since it will be very small, so I am looking forward to that meal!

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I’m eating. Don’t care what guests think.

I figure I’m gonna have all of cocktail hour to mingle. By the time dinner rolls around, I want to be able to just sit and eat. Mine is being served family style so hopefully everyone will be so busy interacting with each other and eating? They won’t even notice I’m not coming around.  I am not doing a sweetheart table but I am doing a head-type table although it isn’t positioned in any prominent place. 

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Hell yes I will be sitting to eat!!

Post # 13
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Newbee

food at the reception is generally deliscious and expensive! I would not miss out! Plus I’m sure I’ll be starving by the time it’s time to eat since you’re going to be nervous and prepping and running around doing stuff for so much of the day. For me, the whole point of my wedding is to enjoy the company of my friends and family, but damnit I will eat!

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

we met with the chef in february to discuss our favorite things and now we have to wait until june for our tasting because they only use in-season and fresh local ingredients. i tried to schedule our tasting and my wedding coordinator laughed and said ‘yeah we’re gonna wait until we’re a little bit closer to june’. bleh.. i wanna eat now!

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Yup, I’m with you.  We just had our tasting and our caterer mentioned assigning us a waiter to make sure we get our apps and our dinner.  I was like, do not worry, I WILL be eating. I don’t not eat. Not eating means shaking and not eating + drinking even just a couple drinks means totally wasted.  Would you not eat dinner at a dinner party you threw? Of course not!

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Yep, the food is what I’ve spent the most time on. I don’t care what anyone thinks I’m eating. Otherwise I will be a total train wreck and a huge cow( so will Fiance ) cause we both get hangry. 

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