- 4 years ago
- Wedding: February 2016
Hey ladies, just need to vent, nothing ground breaking, no one died, no one is sick, no falling out with anyone, Fi still walks on water. I would vent to Fi but he just had his first live interview(so so proud of him) and is still feeling surreal over it. He needs to write and I don’t want to interupt him right now.
I start a new program in September and I needed a new place, found one with two roomies. Kick ass apartment, top floor, sauna, gym YAY! Roomies are cool too. One of them (call him Dan) is moving out of town so he will be gone in June. We started looking for another roomie but the roomie who is staying(lets call him Josh), well his bff(lets call him Ethan) who he grew up with is moving here and YAY he can take the other room.
Ethan had to come early and for the next month will sleep on the pull out couch. Oh well, Dan is not home much so it won’t feel like four of us live in a three bedroom. Turns out Ethan doesn’t have a job or job prospects but he is here, YAY! Seriously, Ethan is a sweetheart. A sweetheart who I am pretty sure has been baked for the past three days. He is looking for a job though.
Dan(who is leaving) cleans up after himself and is rarely home, so anything I have to say has nothing to do with him.
Well, Josh and Ethan are having a wonderful time. When Josh comes home from work, he and Ethan cook together. So sweet. Then they leave dishes and a mess on the stove. I am the one who cleans their mess. Oh that is not fair, yesterday all I did was sweep, scrub the stove, rinse the food off the dishes and soak the dishes in hot water and soap. After a day of playing video games and a night of going to a party, Ethan did the dishes that had been soaking.
The garbage is always over flowing (I am the only one who takes care of it), the leave their dishes and the stove is always messy. They’re having a blast, its like old times for them. Its like they are having a sleep over but as adults so they can stay up as late as they want and they’re old enough to buy booze and who is going to stop Ethan when he wants to be baked all day! They’re living the bachelor dream or something. Hell, Josh (never met a guy more serious about his work, he complains about slackers, if he can breath he goes to work) decided to take a sick day today. From what I can tell he is not sick and no this would not cause anyone to think anyone but this is Josh. Missing work for Josh is bizarre, it’d be like the kid who skips school constantly, is failing and falls asleep in class everyday, showing up one day with all his home work and projects then sitting attentively in the front row taking meticulous notes and participating in class. Just weird, not impossible, just weird.
Seriously, Josh is such a nice guy and Ethan has been nothing but nice to me but I feel like the sister who is home while her brother is having a sleepover. The fact that they don’t clean aside, I feel kinda like an outsider in my own apartment. Its one of those things that is hard to explain, it just feels different. How long is this grown man sleepover atmosphere going to continue? I mean at some point won’t the novelty wear off?
I don’t know what I want. It is what it is and I am not expecting any “poor you” comments. I know there are far greater tragedies in the world. I just had to vent.