(Closed) I am living the best i can

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 32
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Bumble bee

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@vmec: I did think so but we bees always offer advice 🙂

Post # 33
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Bumble bee

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@Beluga: Irrelevant. Well, not, it’s worse if not, but you should tell the person anyway.

Post # 34
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I was cheated on in my last serious relationship and honestly, I would have had a slightly (very slightly) easier time dealing with it if my SO had told me himself, rather than have me find out about it.  When I found out I felt more embarrassed because I felt like there were all these people who knew, and I didn’t.  It was hurtful and embarrassing enough without the added feeling that “well who knows what else he is hiding.”  I really think you need to come clean with your SO and hope that she is able to forgive you and move on.

Post # 35
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

you don’t deserve an easy way out of this. You tell her now and deal with your own reprocausions. 

I don’t have tolerance for this heinous, disgusting behavior. You had a choice and chose NOT to respect the woman you were with. You now don’t deserve her.

Post # 36
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Bumble Beekeeper

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@vmec: It’s against our commenting policy to call someone a troll. If you have doubts, just report the post and move on.

With that said, I agree with

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@Miss Olive:.

Post # 37
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Tell her, which at least gives her the dignity of choosing whether or not to stay with you. She deserves to have all the information to make that choice. Not to mention get an STD test, if you didn’t use protection.

Post # 38
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Must have been what we thought since it’s now been removed…annoying

Post # 39
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

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@VickyAurea: Maybe but it certainly isn’t half as bad as lying about it after.

That’s debatable. 

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