(Closed) I am MEGA stupid!!(long)

posted 8 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
4137 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

what’s more important to you: this dress or granting fi’s wish not to see your dress before the wedding?

Post # 4
3148 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Just wear it anyways. I blurry pic on a cell phoen is going to be different then the day of. PLUS he wont remember all the detailing and feeling the dress and seeing you IN IT For real is much different then a pic.

Post # 5
178 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I agree, go ahead and wear it anyway.  Your wedding date is pretty far off – I doubt your Fiance would remember all the details by that time anyway.

Post # 6
602 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I agree with the above posters. Guys don’t remember details, especially from a blurry cellphone pic. That dress will be great.

Post # 7
5118 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think a photo is definitely different than seeing you at the end of the aisle with music playing and everyone enjoying the moment. Fiance actually saw a photo of me in my gown before I bought it, he didn’t say anything but he’s not one to get excited about anything unless he really dislikes it. I went on ahead and bought it, because a cell phone photo in a dressing room will be nothing like the full hair/makeup/emotional debut of you in your gown with your loved ones. I wouldn’t stress about it too much. 

Post # 8
1480 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Wear your dream dress. I guarantee you your Fiance will get over the flub as soon as he sees you coming down the aisle.

Post # 9
494 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

not a big deal at all, my Fiance went to choose my gown at the same time. Trying the gown is different from the real day. The day you will put accessories and makeup, you will look totally different.

no worries at all. be happy and you will look great.

Post # 10
1986 posts
Buzzing bee

Not a big deal at all. He’ll forget the details(think about it, after all the times you’ve looked at your dress, can you draw it out to the detail in your head? I sure can’t…) and it was only a tiny phone pic!

Post # 11
7295 posts
Busy Beekeeper

i dont think it is a big deal. but everyone feels differently about this topic. i personally will not let my Fiance see me in person with the dress on until our wedding….BUT i am very indecisive and EVERY dress i tried on, i had to show him the pics…especially when it came down to deciding between two! I showed him the 2 pics and he sat and started and helped me decide! because of his input and what he said, i know i will never regret my choice!!


Post # 12
41 posts
  • Wedding: May 2011

You’re not even close to stupid, it’s really easy to get caught up in the flurry of wedding dress excitement! You definitely should still wear the dress, especially because your wedding is still 10 months away.

Post # 13
339 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Wear the dress you love! I agree with all the other posters; chances are your Fiance will not remember the details of the dress 10 months from now after seeing a cell phone pick after having a few cocktails. Even if he did, it will be TOTALLY different with your hair & make-up done and the sheer feel of the wedding.

Heck, I’ve put ON my wedding gown for my Fiance a few months ago b/c I just can’t stand not telling him things lol and now? He totally admits that he can’t recall the details and I’m sure on the big dig, he’ll still be totally blown away 🙂

Post # 14
23 posts
  • Wedding: September 2010

I personally would find another dress. I’m sorry 🙁

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