(Closed) I am NEW at all of this!!!!

posted 12 years ago in New Jersey – North Central New Jersey
Post # 3
1221 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

I think it would be ok to keep working on wedding stuff…and you might want to even consider getting married sooner so your gram can see you get married! That would be very special for her.

As far as your mom’s situation, that really is terrible, and I’m sure she is in a lot of emotional pain right now. I can see where you would be confused as to what to do, that is a tough one. Maybe you could just try to bring it up with your mom and see how she feels about it all?

Post # 4
1315 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

I agree with OK- talk to you mom.  Maybe planning your wedding will lift her spirits?

Another option that works for many couples is to scale down their wedding plans so they can get married sooner.  Or they have something small for immediate family and then have a big party later when finances/circumstances allow.

Mrs.Pineapple and her husband had a small civil ceremony so that his mom, who was very sick, could be there.  You can read about her plans here:


and here



I wish you and your family the best at this difficult time.

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