(Closed) I am *NOT* a bad friend!

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

Don’t respond, and maybe even consider reporting her to the police or at least to Walmart so they can keep an eye out for her. 

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Definitely don’t respond. Your friend is on drugs and obviously “ill.” Nothing you say will be taken as concern for her or coming from a place of a friend. Your last message you sent to her was appropriate and let her know you cared about her and hoped you could reconnect in the future. The future is on her now if and when she gets herself healthy again. Don’t let her passive-aggressive attempt to get a rise out of you work. If she keeps trying with these messages though you might want to consider ending the facebook connection with her too.

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

That girl is NOT your friend.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Not worth responding to. She won’t hear it and it won’t do you any good.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@JaneyJane:  Your friend is obviously a user and a liar. 

Ignore her.  She’s in a very bad place right now and you don’t want to invite her issues into her life by responding.  She either wants to manipulate you so she can continue to use you and/or she just wants to start drama.  You should probably block her. 

Also – I try not to be paranoid but, please be careful.  If she’s stealing to support a habit and she’s angry with you, she could very well decide to rob you.  Make sure your house is secure and that you’re aware of your surroundings when you’re out. 

If she reaches out to made amends – proceed with extreme caution.  As she gets more and more desperate, she’s going to be turning to anyone and everyone she thinks she can get something out of. 

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@MissNoodles:  That is hilarious!

Even though I know it would be the wrong thing to do, Evil Zhabeego wants OP to respond with this!

Post # 12
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’d probably respond to her that friends don’t steal from Walmart and ask their friends to return the items so that they can buy meth. But that’s just me.

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

She is not a real friend. Do not lose a minute of sleep over this. It doesn’t sound like you were ever really that close so she is using and abusing the friendship you had. 

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@JaneyJane:  What thread was that?  Sounds interesting and I missed it!

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