(Closed) I am not happy with my flower girls dress D=

posted 7 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
413 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Its normal for flowergirls to be in a white dress and her dress is gorgeous. Have your son wear the white shirt as in the pick instead of the green one and your flower girl wear the white dress. That way those two match and your Bridesmaids and Groomsmen are all in black.

Post # 5
413 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Can you compare the two dress fabrics? Usually the flowersgirls dress is a mini version or compliments the brides gown. Maybe you can find another white dress for your flowergirl in a tone of white the matches your dress better and still keeps your Grandmother happy. Also I just had a better idea, since you really to carry the green through your entire bridal party, put your son in the green shirt and buy a green sash for your flowergirls dress.

Post # 6
6824 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Honestly let her wear the dress and as the PP said have your son wear white shirt.  No one is going to say OMG the flower girl dress doesn’t match the white of your dress. In the long run it isn’t going to matter stressing about this.  After the wedding you are going to wonder why you even worried about it. 

Post # 7
46421 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think that having your son wear a white shirt is one solution, but frankly I would not have picked that dress for the flowergirl. She is going to stand out like  a sore thumb. There isn’t anything about that dress that coordinates with the rest of the wedding party.

If it can be returned I suggest you look at Pink Princess for some green dresses or at least a dress with some green in it.


If it can’t be returned I would at least replace the sash and flower with green, perhaps also sew green detailing- beads, embroidered flowers etc  scattered over the skirt.

There will also be a lot of lovely dresses for little girls around Easter in stores like Marshalls, J C Penney and TJ Maax.

Post # 8
133 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

It’s no big deal, might even add some color to your bridal party, lol i agree with above, you might wonder why you were worried at all after the wedding.  I know the brides tend to overreact on trivial issues about their wedding, at least a few of my friends did. So just stop worrying it,the most important part is you are marring the one you love!

Post # 13
5 posts

The dress is quite attractive and impressive. You should wear this.

Post # 16
5763 posts
Bee Keeper

How old is your FG? That black dress is way too old for one unless she’s 12. The white one will be fine. She won’t be right on top of you so your dresses don’t have to match. My daughter wore diamond white with a champagne overlay and the Flower Girl was in bright white. Nobody would or did notice. Have your son in a white shirt and maybe have the Flower Girl carry something with both green and black in it. You’ll be fine.

By The Way. Its pretty normal for the Bridal Party to pay for their own hair. If you’re insisting they have it done, they YOU pay for it, but otherwise, they’re on their own.

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