(Closed) I am not longer a October bride…I am not longer a bride at all :(

posted 7 years ago in October 2013
Post # 17
8037 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@FutureMrs.Spencer:  Ugh… what an asshole. I have no idea why men who like to cheat decide to get married. Stupid. I hope you have a great life and get over this asshole quickly. It’s good this didn’t happen AFTER you said “I do”. You will find someone who actually deserves you! *Hugs*


Post # 18
2250 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I’m sorry you are going through that 🙁

+1 to MrsPanda’s douche canoe comment. You deserve better than that!


Post # 19
6240 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

I’m so sorry this happened to you =( At least you found out before you got married

Post # 20
11165 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

@FutureMrs.Spencer:  Oh hun I am so sorry! I wish I had words of wisdom but all I can say is I am glad you found out now rather than after the wedding. You are in my thoughts and prayers and I hope that you can soon look forward to a new future, without him in it! You deserve better!!!

Post # 21
222 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I am so sorry! You deserve so much better!!

Post # 22
965 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Oh sweetie, I am so sorry!  It’s going to hurt like hell for a little while, but it will get better and you’ll find your smile again.  He doesn’t deserve you.  ((HUGS))

Post # 23
428 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Sorry to hear that 🙁   but like PPs said, you do deserve better and its better to know now rather than after being married. HUGS

Post # 24
614 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@FutureMrs.Spencer:  Oh my gosh, I’m so sorry. Praying that everything works out for you!

Post # 25
229 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@FutureMrs.Spencer:  You’ll be just fine. Same thing happened to me 3 years ago. I called it off; he wasn’t cheating, but he wasn’t the one. I started dating again and 3 yrs later, I am planning a wedding with my true love and the man of my dreams! Thank God I broke up with my ex or I wouldn’t have met my soulmate. Just surround yourself with family, friends and lots of love. Also, make sure you make a list of the warning signs your ex showed and what you want in an ideal husband. When you start dating again, look at your lists and stick to them. You’ll find yourself in a much happier relationship soon! I wish you all the best!!!

Post # 26
2 posts
  • Wedding: December 2007

What a jerk!! At least you found out before you were bound legally. Some women go several years before finding out. There is someone out there for you who will treat you with the respect and decency you deserve. <3 <3

Post # 27
2515 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I am so sorry. You may not feel like this now, but one day you will be so grateful you found out before the wedding.

Post # 28
351 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@FutureMrs.Spencer:  I’m so sorry for you! What a horrible thing he did to you! I’m glad you had the strength to walk away from him, you deserve so much better! I know right now your still picking up pieces! But surround yourself with friends and family and your growing stronger than you’ve ever been! You have all my respect and you deserve it from everyone else too, especially everyone who’s going to walk in your life in the future!

Post # 29
442 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013 - Tybee Island, GA

Oh my!!
I know it has to suck! But to be honest, at least you found out now before you committed your life to him!

I’m sorry for the hurt and i know how i or any other brides would feel in your situation, and we are ALL here for you!

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