(Closed) I am seriously annoyed with the DB stigma…

posted 7 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I was prejudice against david’s bridal, I felt like it was a wal-mart of dress shops.  The best customer service and nicest consultant that I had by far when dress shopping was david’s bridal- no joke.  I ended up getting another gown because I fell in love with it elsewhere, but it wasn’t about quality it was just love! It really opened my eyes though, the people there were genuinely a lot nicer than at the other shops I went to!

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

No one said anything negative about my DB dress. Maybe the people I talk to have better manners? But I don’t see anything wrong with a DB dress (obvy!) My dress was only $750 and it wasn’t the most expensive thing I tried on. I had a budget of up to $2K… but this dress made me cry. It was the *one*!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I acutally wasn’t happy with the first DB I went to but the fact that the second DB I called searched and searched and FOUND the dress I wanted while I as sitting down to an overdue lunch and drink totally made up for it.

I believe their alterations are a rip off but I think they are at most places anyway.

And I feel the same way as you… I’m wearing it for very little. I’d like to sell it afterwards. I have very little attachment to it.

I actually feel this way about the whole wedding. I’m sure I’ll feel different once its here but reality is, it’s one day. We’re spending about $10K on one day that isn’t even FOR us. Imagine the damage I could have done!

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I personally dislike DB for the service I received, though I’ve seen many beautiful dresses from there. I don’t care if anyone else buys there though.

I saw someone once say that they disliked laceup backs on wedding gowns because they looked cheap, like Maggie Sottero dresses.

Um… Maggie Sottero is in the $1-2k range, that’s almost half my wedding budget! Not cheap to me. The Disney gowns by Alfred Angelo have also been called “cheap” on these boards… I loved the Belle dress but ended up deciding against it because it’s $1100 and I couldn’t afford it… not everyone’s definition of cheap is the same I guess. Sorry people are being so rude to you about it!

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@murmur: The DB rep was the nicesest wedding dress helper tryer-on-er that I had the entire wedding dress shopping too! I had fun at DB. Not so fun at the others.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

  David’s Bridal does get some bad press. I didn’t get my wedding dress from there, but one of my friends did, and it really was a beautiful dress. I’ve had some good luck and some bad luck with bridesmaid dresses from there (I have purchased three Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses from them). I think the customer service can be very hit-and-miss with them. I’m sorry that people are making those types of comments–they just don’t realize that it is hurtful to hear those things!

  I wonder what would happen if you told people you happened to get your dress from another store, print out the picture (with nothing related to DB on it), and showed them? Could be an interesting experiment :-).

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I only WISH we had DB’s up here (rumour has it we’ll have one by the end of the year-  of course, too late for my wedding!). It would make everything MUCH easier.

I’m jealous, is what I’m saying. 

Post # 10
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1723 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I had a terrible experience there with customer service.  I do not look down on anyone for buying their dress there, it just wasn’t for me.

Post # 11
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677 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Yes, I see bees on here all the time casually call DB low-end and I have heard other brides say they refuse to shop there because they are “warehouse dresses” and such, which I think is annoying. My dress was gorgeous and I got nothing but compliments on it all night, it fit me great and it was affordable. I dont have a lot of money so it was perfect for me but one of these brides I know who is planning her wedding couldnt find a dress she liked at fancy salons, and refused to shop at Davids until my sister told her just to take a look. What do you know, she found her dress! And she has the money to spend on something more expensive. But she doesnt want to tell people where she got it, so she is just telling people its an oleg cassini. And I dont know how most people budget but spending even over $1000 on a single garment is so out of my reach that it seems crazy to even consider it. Do you get the same experience shopping there as kleinfelds? No, but you dont waste a house payment on a dress either, and you still look beautiful.

Post # 13
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214 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I spent thousands on my dress but that was choice and my budget. I personally would NEVER speakly lowly about a DB dress. I personally have had horrible experieces with the one here but that isn’t saying anything about the dresses just the staff.

I think there are some really pretty dresses at DB but not what I was looking for 🙂

Post # 14
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221 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@RahlyRah: SFreeman2187: I haven’t gotten a dress yet, actually I haven’t even tried one on yet. But I agree! I have heard comments about DB, especially when I told people I have an appointment there.

I’m with you girls though.. It’s one day, and it’s a dress you are going to wear for a couple hours. I could use that money for a lot of things… I judge other bride’s that are going crazy.

I don’t even think I am going to go with a traditional wedding dress, and even though My mom is paying for most of it, I am trying to save money. 

Nothing against anyone else, I just think it is “snobbish” if/when people look at you like “oh.. that’s what your dress/wedding is like”.. 

To each their own.. I know it is a special day, and everyone’s will be different. I think it’s wrong for anyone to be negative towards another bride’s excitement.

Post # 15
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@RahlyRah: I don’t think it’s the dresses that people judge, but the customer service. Some people have a great time there and a lot of people don’t. David’s is known for selling your info and spamming the shit out of you. I did try on some beautifull gowns at David’s, but my consultant was off in her own world and I hated the 50 emails that I got later that day from photographers, DJ’s, event planners, venues, etc that all got my email address from them. 

Post # 16
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163 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I have nothing against DB and was actually looking there first because I only wanted to spend about $500. But I just never found anything I loved. So I ended up spending double that on my dress but I know it’s the one and with my family being so generous I have been able to afford it.  I think DB dresses are fine and like you said, you only wear them one night. I think people tend to judge DB before they wedding plan and then realize why brides go there, because its affordable with all the other costs of wedding planning!

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