(Closed) I am so frustrated right now…

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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331 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

Im sorry. 🙁 this sort of thing really sucks. My SO sister got into a fight with him around new years and things have just been coming around. I didint want to get into the middle either but she basically started blaming there arguments on me. She sent me a nasty text message saying I was the reason why her and her brother dont talk anymore. I did nothing wrong and it was very frustrating. I couldnt talk to my SO about it cause he would get very mad and it would cause us to argue. No matter what that is his sister and you cant change that or how hes going to feel no matter how wrong his sister is. You cant controll is she wont respond to you. If she cant put things aside for your wedding then thats horrible and childish. I think it would be time to start looking for a new ring bearer if she continues to ignore you :/ Im sorry I hope things get better for you.

Post # 5
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250 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I don’t think that her reasoning is ridiculous.  I think she just feels that she doesn’t want to have to deal with any drama that might arise in explaining that your aunt and uncle want one over the others.  Having them all do something like hand out programs is a great idea.

Post # 6
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662 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@ememkay:  Are the boys close in age? I see her point – the other boys might feel left out.

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

@ememkay:  I think that is a fair decision. 🙂

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