(Closed) I am so frustrated with dress shopping!

posted 4 years ago in Dress
Post # 2
279 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I went to a bridal salon and tried on a bunch of designer gowns.  I chose a Maggie Sottero that retailed for about 1400.   It was gorgeous, the material was beautiful, I’ve never worn something so luxurious.     Then I ended up purchasing the same gown used, online, for 500.   You still get the luxurious materials of the more expensive gowns, at a fraction of the cost.   If you go with Jasmines it will likely be a much cheaper material than the original you want replicated.     It’s one route to consider.    If you do decide to go the used route be cautious and ask the seller about alterations and for photos to show the current condition.    The dress I purchased is just as gorgeous as the one I tried on in the salon.   I’m so glad I saved all that money!

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Post # 3
1318 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Is your mom helping with the cost since she has so much opinion about what type of dress you should get?

Post # 4
343 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

xtals:  I actually went through what you are doing now. I couldn’t for the life of me justify spending that much on a dress to wear one night. I finally got frustrated enough to order from Dressilyme. (Also a shop in China) I got it custom ordered and with the price of the dress, custom sizing, and shipping it was under $275!! It fits fantastic. No alterations needed, except for a bustle. From what I’ve seen as long as the dress is pretty simple and not too much deviation from the website, the dresses come out great. It is hit or miss and you have to be willing (or at the point of never wanting to go to another dress salon) to put the trust in someone overseas…. Good luck

Post # 6
218 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

xtals:  I went in to the upscale bridal botiques with the same budget as you with a couple month timeline. They were able to pull a surprising amount of dresses that fell within range that I could buy the samples of. It might be worth a shot? I would go midweek when they weren’t busy.

Post # 7
124 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

Consider looking at prom gowns orderable in ivory/white. It will be lower price for more embellishment. Less construction, less quality material…… Don’t order “replica” (read-counterfeit) online. Too risky and you are supporting illegal activity. For something to be made non counterfeit at least 3 major changes need to be made. Just FYI…..

Post # 8
121 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

xtals:  also try preownedweddingdresses.com and church street bridal. I got my dress for $800 from the last minute bride on preo wend wedding dresses and my veil from CSB. 

Post # 10
33 posts
  • Wedding: November 2014

Check out Siri Bridal,she is based in San Francisco, but I was able to find her dresses on the East Coast, and they had quite a few dresses under the $1000 price point


Post # 9
20 posts

I was also going to recommend preownedweddingdresses.com, but also check out nearlynewlywed.com for used dresses – they vet them to make sure they’re in good condition, etc., I think. And you can order three, try them on at home, and send back the ones you don’t want. (I think there’s a charge if you choose none of them.)

Post # 11
38 posts
  • Wedding: April 2015 - Allerton Mansion

I got my dress recently from a bridal consignment boutique.  Almost 90% of the dresses the store carries are designer brands that are brand new from regular bridal stores.  I got my dress for about $700 less than it would have been at a bridal store, and it was brand new.  See if there are any bridal consignments by you – there seem to be a lot popping up! 

Post # 12
29 posts

Totally hear you about budget! I think you’re being very sensible to keep your budget reasonable. Try local bridal consignment stores and Craigslist. My second choice was a dress from a local consignment bridal store. It was a 2013 gown for $600! I didn’t buy it in the end because I needed more alterations than my first choice.

Post # 13
424 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2016 - Our Castle

Sales Rack!?

I was lucky that the dress i fell in love with online was discontinued and onsale when i went so i got it for just over half price! Know what you want and like then try and find it on sale?..


Good luck!

Post # 14
2613 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - St Peter's Church, East Maitland, and Bella Vista, Newcastle

A lot of bridesmaid dresses are available in white or ivory and are a load cheaper than wedding dresses – could be worth exploring.

Post # 15
28 posts
  • Wedding: June 2014

Hey. Idk what size you are but I have a dress for sale. I haven’t worn it because I decided it was too flashy. I spent over 1200 on it. I would sell it to anyone if they gave be $200 dollars and covered the shipping cost. It’s a size 8

<h5>Tulle Ballgown with Champagne Lining and Beading Style CWG468</h5>
<h4><strong id=”collection”>Oleg Cassini</h4>


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