(Closed) I am so heartbroken

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Post # 3
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1982 posts
Buzzing bee

Oh my goodness, I’m so sorry for the loss of your dear friend. I agree with the advice you’ve gotten–she would understand! My thoughts are with you and again, so sorry to hear this. (((hugs)))

Post # 4
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4480 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

Oh no, I’m so sorry. You might not have been able to make it to her funeral, but I am sure you’ll find other ways to remember her.

Post # 5
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5263 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m so sorry. I am going through something really similar right now (a man I’ve taken care of at the nursing home I’ve worked at for the past four years is on downward spiral) and I know he won’t make it to R & my wedding. He has been a big part of our lives, and somehow milestones like weddings make it harder, and guilt from not being there to say goodbye is tough. But you were there with her when it counted, remember that. *Hugs*

Post # 6
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1816 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

Shannon, I am so sorry to hear that youlost your friend.  Please don’t feel guilty about the funeral.  You were a friend to her during her life and that is what truly counts.  Don’t worry about taking her off of your list just yet.  Take the time you need to cope with the situation.  My thoughts are with you. 

Post # 7
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7174 posts
Busy Beekeeper

I’m so sorry for your loss.  Ruthie knows how you felt about her; funerals are really for the living, afterall.  Is there anything you can do where you are at in honor of her?  ie: drink her favorite beverage, do her favorite thing (or what you guys liked to do together).  When a dear co-worker of mine passed away, something that brought me solace was to do those types of things…. and always say a little toast to her memory.

Post # 8
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2681 posts
Sugar bee

Im very sorry to hear about your loss.  My DH’s uncle passed away a few months before our wedding and I never did remove him from our list.  Couldnt do it.  I hope you dont continue to be upset with yourself about not being able to make the funeral.

Post # 9
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542 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I too am sorry for your loss.  While it won’t make the sadness go away any sooner, I agree that you should find something you can do on your own to honor her and her life.  It might not come to you today, but I’m sure there is something that will help you find peace and maybe some closure when the time is right.

Post # 11
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7174 posts
Busy Beekeeper

…also – if you haven’t already, sending a sympathy card to her husband would be a nice gesture… and may be a bit therapeutic in the grieving process.

Post # 12
Member
5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

its wonderful that you had found such a kind mentor in your life – i hope her example to you helps guides you for your future

((hugs))

 

 

Post # 13
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2513 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

I’m sorry for your loss 🙁 I’m sure she appreciated the friendship you gave her in her life & would totally understand you not being able to be there right now. I hope you find comfort in the thought of her & the memories you shared together!

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