(Closed) I am so peeved off right now!

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I’d kick him out for a couple days. He’s gotta hit the bottom and see that you won’t always be around to bail him out before he changes. So sorry you’re going through this and I wish you all the best! Family stuff is always so complicated and while I’ve never gone through this, I know that if my sis was acting like this (and she does live with me) one of us would be gone ASAP.

Good luck and my thoughts are with you!!!! Hugs!

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

S*** does happen, but a lot moreso when you’re busy s***ting all over the place. 🙁

I’m really sorry. It always hurts when it’s people we love who are screwing up so much.

Post # 5
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2214 posts
Buzzing bee

If that were my brother, I’d kick him out.  If he was going to live with me, then he’d have to follow my rules (wow, I just sounded like my father).  But it’s true.  Sometimes tough love is in order.  I guess it really just depends on his options… I don’t think I would do it if he had to live on the street, but if he had a friend he could live with or something, then I would.  He may grow up if he doesn’t have someone supporting him.

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I’m so sorry. I’ve been there. I didn’t have the heart to kick my brother out. I loved him too much. Sometimes I wonder if it would have been better for him to send him packing, but the thought of him being homeless killed me. Its been 5 years and I am happy to say that he turned his life around completely. Best of luck.

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