(Closed) I am so upset :(

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
3148 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Oh i am so sorry to hear this!! Is theri anyways you can just scale down your budget and wedding planning so you can still have the wedding??

Post # 4
1537 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I’m so sorry to hear this. Keep your head up! Maybe while you are at home you could try to find some new ways to advertise his name. That might help to build the clientel base for him…every little bit will help πŸ™‚ I know you can pay an extra fee with some search engines and advertisers to have your name appear at the top of the list, so it might be something to consider. The money spent on that would be worth it to get his name out there.

Good luck πŸ™‚

Post # 5
4137 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

i’m so sorry! would it be worth it for him to look for another job that is salaried?

Post # 6
2192 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Oh I’m so sorry to hear that!! ((HUGS))

Post # 7
6351 posts
Bee Keeper

Yuck. I know how much postponing or scaling down a wedding sucks after all the planning.

Did he sign a contract with the firm?


Post # 8
1398 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

πŸ™ I’m so sorry to hear that.  I have a bunch of friends/family members that are attorneys, and no one seems to realize that it’s kind of a cutthroat business.  It’s all or nothing a lot of the time with making money.  It really seems like a lot of bees are having rough times lately.  πŸ™  Keeping you guys in my thoughts. 

Post # 9
4824 posts
Honey bee

I am sorry.

I dont know what your disability it is you have, but is there something you can do to put money aside? Do online surveys that get paid? Dog walk a few days a week? Plant sit for neighbors on vacation? Part time job someplace? That will help you have the wedding sooner?

Post # 11
476 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Glad you haven’t put any money toward it. That is very frustrating though, my thoughts are with you guys. Hoping that his talents truly shine and he builds a client base quickly.

Post # 12
452 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

I am in law school also and the amazing thing about law is a lawyer can work anywhere.  Has he thought of venturing on his own? I mean if he has to start at zero and do a 60/40 split, then why not start at 0 and get 100% for yourself?  I think he should also look elsewhere.  Good luck and everything will work out!

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