Post # 17
I’ve seen this same situation a couple times on the boards and I’ll never understand why the exes would rather drag stuff out like this. The separation effectively ended the marriage; once you’re living apart and have separate lives, the divorce is just the formality of it. I cannot imagine separating from my husband, moving on, and then just… refusing to finalize the divorce for years in an effort to be a nuisance. It boggles me. This sucks. I’m sorry. 🙁
Post # 18
My FI’s ex threatened all sorts of stuff unless he paid her a bunch of money (not going to get into details) even though she was cheating on him and caused the split.
In Canada it kind of sucks for that.
Thank god he paid up and the bitch signed the papers and f*cked off uncontested.
Double thank god they have no children
Triple thank god on that last part.
And they were a Military couple.
He says that he will never date military again.
LOL! ETA: hopefully not since we’re supposed to be married,.
Post # 19
Agreed, but I’m sorry OP that you are going through this.