(Closed) I am terrified of being in my house:(

posted 8 years ago in Home
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Oh lady, I am so sorry this is all happening, I will send good thoughts your way!  

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I understand your concern…I would totally not be able to sleep either 🙁  I’m sorry this is happening.  I would recommend getting your locks changed in the morning, it might help ease your mind a little bit.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

Eek, double check your locks! I’m guessing you all are just tired and not thinking about moving/misplacing things, but still creepy… have your Fiance make sure no one’s in the house and just keep everything locked up tight. 

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

I would definitely check and change the locks as well.  That is very strange.  I think with tehnew baby you are probably just tired and with the wedding coming up… but i definitely think changed locks and perhaps an alarm system could add some comfort.

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

I’m sorry! I totally understand how you feel – I’d be freaking out too! Definitely double check locks before you go to bed!!!

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

This is definitely scary! Its probably just the planning and forgetfulness on everybodys part. I would definitely do a double check on the doors when you leave and at night before bed just to give yourself a piece of mind.

Post # 9
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2009

When it was just me and a roommate here, we had some issues and we had the police come over and do a walk-through and provided suggestions on how to make our house safer.  It gave us great peace of mind!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

double check your locks tonight — put chairs under the door knobs too. Then in the morning get all locks changed and reprogram the garage (if applicable) I am so sorry this is happening! I am sending you good vibes!

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

I think your mind is playing tricks on you.  I would be pretty freaked, too, but I would want someone to come along and tell me my mind was playing tricks on me.  You’re planning a wedding.  You’ve got two kids, one of them in a crib.  You’ve got a lot going on!

Does your fiance live with you?  Can he stay with you so that you can have some peace of mind?  If you really needed some reassurance, you can always call your local police and ask them to do a drive by periodically.  Personally, that would make me feel better.

But I really think it’s just your mind.  Not that you’re crazy.  But that you’re human.

Post # 12
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

This is very scary!  I’m so sorry for you.  Do you have an alarm in the house? 

This sounds crazy, but maybe it’s a ghost?

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Please tell me you have an alarm system!  That way you can keep it on at all times just as a precaution!

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

Creeeepy! I would be freaking out. Maybe you can leave little traps like a stick or something on your windows and you’ll know if someones been there if the thing you put there is gone?

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

If your Fiance does not live with you get a male friend, brother, father to come over at night. Do not feel stupid about calling the police if you really get scared. That is what they are there for- to make you feel safe. Who cares if it is nothing?? better safe than sorry.

Post # 16
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Oh my goodness that is so scary! I would agree, change your locks, get an alarm system or even those little alarms from Home Depot that you can stick on doors (like little chimes that they have at convenience stores). Mrs DG’s suggestion of a police walk through is very smart. I think alerting them to weird happenings (especially with a sexual predator across the street) is a good idea. I’m sure you’re just tired and stressed. I have weird things happen like that in my house all the time but I realize it’s just me and my terrible memory. I move like a zombie some days. Stay safe darling!

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