(Closed) I am thisclose to eloping…

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I am 16 days away and I tell ya if we didn’t have so much money into this, we would elope. It’s been nothing but stress for me (and Fiance sometimes too). I wish we would have eloped then just had a huge casual party. Do what makes you and Fiance happy because that’s all that matters.

Post # 4
Member
77 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@Soon2beeMrsM:i am 9 days away and i would say elope too, even though i can’t wait to see what my DIY wedding ends up looking like, feeling like and behaving like!  I know what the day is about and I will do everything in my power to be present and breathe in every delicious moment! 

Do what makes you happy.  Listen to your voice.

Post # 5
Member
1222 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@Soon2beeMrsM: I am w/ you!! Yes, being 10 days out, I still say that.

Post # 6
Member
68 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Sometimes I feel that way too. Our wedding isn’t until next Oct and I want to be married already. I’m thinking of just moving ours forward a few months if it is possible…Hang in there it will be here before you know it and from what everyone seems to say it’s totally worth it in the end 🙂

Post # 7
Member
931 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

25 weeks and 2 days out, which means that I assume I will consider eloping approximately 127 more times between now and then. Time to explain to your Fiance that the most important thing that he can do for your weddding, is be your backstop for when you feel like you’re ready to go flippin’ insane.

In Sum: You.Are.Not.Alone. Hang in there. Or don’t. And do what most of us don’t have the guts to do and fly off to …. I dunno … Big Sky, Montana.

Post # 8
Member
253 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I think we all have those moments.  I’m about 6 weeks out and the stress is killing me.  For sanity’s sake, I wish we had eloped but I don’t want to spend the rest of my life regretting not investing time and money for a day that is meant to be remembered for a lifetime 🙂

Post # 9
Member
151 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I think if I could go back in time I would elope.  I’ve had that much grief over this wedding that I’m not even sure I want it any more.  His family have tried to control everything, and there have been some massive fights.  So from that point of view I would elope.

From a finance/time point of view, it’s totally your call.  You can still have a beautiful wedding very cheaply – and remember the best bit is being married to the love of your life at the end of the day.  Also I think every bride has those days lol x

Good luck, and hope you feel better soon 🙂

The topic ‘I am thisclose to eloping…’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors